Baak Talk

Easter 2010

2010-08-12T20:12:00.000-07:00

Easter, is my favorite holiday....

for obvious reasons. It is a reminder that we have reason to have hope and joy in this life that can sometimes feel so full of pain and sorrow. It reminds me that all the pain and sorrow that can seem so overbearing is not without reason. More importantly, we do not have to bear that pain and grief alone because someone bore it for us a long time ago.

My mom had this picture hung on the refrigerator door when I was growing up. She always pointed out how the door did not have a knob on the Savior's side. She would remind us that because of the precious gift of free agency that Heavenly Father has given us, it is our responsibility to open the door and let the Savior into our lives...

We just have to remember to turn to him, open the door, let him in and let go of the grief and pain he already suffered for us. He is always there, patiently waiting. I was and am fascinated with this picture. When I am going through some trial in my life, my mother's words resound through me and into my heart and will remind me to drop to my knees and open the door from within.

You may wonder why I have a pic of this place setting here with my Easter post. It is a precious gift that my grandma Mary Kay gave me. It is china that has been in her family, my family, for over 100 years! It was her grandmother's, who passed it on to her mother and then herself. I remember getting to eat off it at special occasions. I would look at it and think of all of the generations of my family who sat around at similar special occasions and enjoy each others company. What stories that china could tell if it could talk!

Those who know my dad know he is a HUGE family history buff. Although it has not rubbed off on me to start doing the physical research, I do love the spirit of it all. I love to hear the stories of sacrifice and just living of my ancestors! I am grateful for my early ancestors who fought and died in the revolutionary and civil wars. Who trekked across the plains and most importantly, found the gospel of Jesus Christ and righteously taught and nutured their children so I could enjoy the blessings in my life today.

This china symbolizes that to me, a long chain of my family heritage. I never imagined it would be mine since I have 2 aunts. Fortunately for me they were not as interested in it. When my grandfather passed away and my grandma had to move she offered me this china. I was so honored!!! What a precious gift. It seems especially fitting to use it at Easter time knowing that because of the great gift from my Savior, I will get to meet my ancestors some day and be able to personally thank them!!!

On a more personal family note, here are some pics from our Easter celebration....

Grandma is in the dark... Why didn't I take a pic of her in front of the china? I AM going to do that the next get together!!

It's hard to pin down Kierstin and Bradley for some traditions now, but here are some of

Bryce with his Easter cache!

Brian "scored a bullseye" with his

Tyson was the first to discover all the fun!

And of course, egg decorating the night before

We are so happy to have Mary, Ann and Patty join us for so many special occasions! We sure love you!!

Happy 3rd Birthday Tyson!!!

2010-07-21T19:21:00.000-07:00

Tyson's 3rd Birthday...

March 11, 2010

Of course, waking up to bday decor and his favorite breakfast..
chocolate chip pancakes
(with a warmer upper wisher on it of course!)

It was to be understood, mom, that Tyson would definately help make his own cake...
chocolate of course!

Definitely can make 3 for all to see!

Trip to the park, to swing to his heart's content
and play with Faith, his favorite friend!!

It really was a very happy day at Disneyland....
hardly any lines and fireworks at the end.

Happy Birthday to Ty...
my darling little guy!!

Love you!

Why?

2010-06-07T11:14:00.000-07:00

As I'm doing my workout this morning and Tyson is doing "kung fu" (my workout with me);

Tyson: "Mom, why do we squeeze are buns for anyway?"

Me: "mmmmmmmmm, uhhhhhhh..."

Tyson: "To make them stronger?"

Me: "yep, that's it, to make them stronger."

Tyson: "Why do you want strong buns?"

Me: "mmmmm, uhhhhh..."

Tyson: "I know, to do poops better!"

Happy 100th Birthday Cub Scouts!!

2010-05-02T22:16:00.000-07:00

The scouting program has been a part of my whole entire life. When I was little, my dad was always involved in the scouting program in some way. He put his heart and soul into it as he does with every calling he is given.

I remember wishing I was a boy so I could spend more time with my dad. He started out in the program before he had sons in the program. By the time my brothers got into the program, he was definately an expert. My brothers had their eagles before they knew what was happening; and they mean that literally. He was always saying what a wonderful program it is.

It somehow rubbed off on me. Since no one else had a clue about Cub Scouts, I volunteered to be over it when I was called as first counsellor in the Primary Presidency almost 13 years ago. I knew I had a wonderful resourse to refer to, good old dad.

Dad was a wonderful resourse and a great encouragement and testimony to how valuable the scouting program can be in a young man's life. Little did I know how much it would impact my life as I would have 4 boys of my own.

Almost 13 years later I have been a den leader or committee chairperson straight; with only 1 break, a year and a half ago when we moved to Murrieta. The ward we were renting in called me to Young Women's which I loved for the 6 months we were there. I should have known it was the wrong ward. We ended up buying a house in a different ward and was called right away to be the Bear leader.

I have to bear testimony to the wonderful program that scouting is. I have been to regional LDS scouting meetings where general authorities have said that "the scouting program is inspired of God." I bear testimony that it is true. What a wonderful program that teaches boys to be good citizens, family members, friends, to have good life skills and most importantly, that God is at the center of it all!!! It really goes hand in hand with preparing young boys to get ready for the priesthood.

I think it is sad that it is one of the hardest callings to fill. I think that people don't get the proper training and don't catch the whole vision. I am also discouraged that the world is discounting it's value. Take a good look at the program and you'll see what I'm talking about.

This year is the 100th birthday of the Cub Scouting Program. For Blue & Gold dinner we had a cake decorating contest. The boys had to come up with the design. This is Bryce's cake....

These are pics from our trip to the Police Station. This is always one of my favorite tours. I'll never forget the first group of boys I took to the jail in H.B. It was a larger facility than the one in Murrieta designed for a longer stay. I took the boys through and after viewing the "sobering room" and seeing how the shower areas and bathroom lacked privacy (there were windows for the gaurds to check on them) the officer doing the tour asked the boys if they'd like to go into the jail cell, complete with bars and everything. I thought they'd all jump at the chance; they all were quiet and said not really. I had to go in the cell myself and practically pull them in to get a pic. I was amazed. They all come away saying they NEVER want to go to jail! Best kind of field trip, lesson learned!

Bryce's group (which Brian got to tag along) was a little more light hearted about it. They don't really have a jail there, it's just a holding facility until they can trasnfer to the county jail.

They loved the officers showing off the motorbikes. The officers were great displaying all their "gear." They clocked one of the boys with their radar (he could run 7 miles per hour) and showed off their guns and shot guns and sirens (can you tell from the pic?). They did not get a tazer demonstration although they were shocked to learn that officers in training actually have to be tazered and sprayed with pepper spray in the face as part of their trainings. One boy asked "why on earth would you let them do that to you?!" The officers were ever so patient answering all questions.

Yes, 8-10 year old boys are rambunctious, energetic with a half minute attention span, but this program puts them on the right track to learning how to have a successful life. It's been so fun to actually share this program with my boys, first Bradley and now Bryce. I look forward to sharing Brian & Tyson's experiences with them as well! I'm grateful for this wonderful tool Heavenly Father has given to help young men prepare for life.

Happy 100th Brithday Scouts!!

Happy 10th Birthday Bryce!

2010-04-25T14:19:00.000-07:00

Bryce officially took the step out of his boyhood into the pre-teen waters

on January 13, 2010....

Yes, Bryce turned 10 in '10.

The cool thing about Bryce's birthday is he will turn 11 in 2011,

12 in 2012, 13 in 2013...etc.

That's the perk of being a millenial baby, it's easy to calculate your age.

He has also offically hit the double digit mark, sad but true.

No more little boy; he's approaching the whole evolution of life

the crystalis stage otherwise known as the teenage years.

We started off the big day with his favorite breakfast, chocolate chip pancakes with

whipped cream please and a "warmer upper" birthday candle to make

sure he is prepared for the real thing!

Since it hit a school day we celebrated with the family...

Steak and potatos....

and wait... not cake but cheesecake for me, if you please!!

(Bryce adores cheesecake)

Birthday wishes... will come true (pfeew!)

You may be getting bigger, but not big enough to escape dad's bday spankings!!

Friday, we had a sleepover birthday party with a few friends...

Can you guess the theme?

For those of you that may not be x-box 360 savy- (I envy you, boy I do!)-

this cake is an exact replica of a controller if I do say so myself!!!

Well, at least he could tell what it was!

Overall I think we must say he had a fun start to his 1oth year, gaming all the day into the night!! Bryce is all about games of every kind. More importantly he is all about winning games of every kind. He is competitve to the bone! He is a mini-Danny in every way! Don't get between them in any kind of game! He loves board games, ball games, word games and especially video games! He is all about fun and loving life. He has a very easy going personality. He's easy to please with a very kind and sensitive heart. He is a delightful addition to our family. I can't imagine life without my Brycee! I can't wait to see what life has in store for you! I know you will do amazing things and stay true to who you are!

Happiest of Brithdays Bryce!

May ALL your dreams come true!

A Check on My Faith

2010-01-19T22:12:00.000-08:00

Like I have stated before, this blog is for the purpose of perserving a piece of the Baak Family history. It is a journal of things going on in our family. A tangible history that my kids especially, can reflect upon. May it stir the feelings and emotions the experiences we have shared evoked within us.

I treasure many of the memories created in my family while growing up. I have had some profound spiritual experiences when I was very young that kept me spiritually grounded as I grew older and went through what I call "the finding process" of my life. It is that period of life when you really internalize everything you have been told and learned from your parents, and those around you, and decide for yourself if they are really true.

I have had several people tell me over the years that if they had been raised to believe something, most specifically, the gospel, they would believe it is true too. That is not true. After a certain point, typically in the teenage years, you begin to question everything around you. You decide for yourself if you are really going to accept the beliefs presented to you or choose a different route. We all come to that fork in the road.

Fortunately, I was able to have several experiences within my family when I was young that testified to me that the teachings of the gospel that my parents presented to me were true. Most importantly, they taught me the process that I could discover for myself, if those principles were really true. I went through that process and have learned for myself it is.

I am truly grateful to my parents for working hard to teach me the princples of the gospel and creating an environment where I could discover the truthfulness of its teachings.

I am striving to create that with my children now. I want them to remember these experiences. I had a chance to share one with them recently and I want them to remeber it....

Right before Thanksgiving, Danny finished up a job and got paid for it. He gave me the check to deposit in the bank. I happened to be on my way out taking Tyson and Tiki for a walk. I didn't want to go back in the house so I folded it up and put it in my back pocket, like I do most things. We walked all the way across our neighborhood and into a different block and back. We came home and I did several household chores all around the house and in the garage.

A few hours later I decided I had better go to the bank and deposit the check; it was gone. It was not in my back pocket or in the place where I usually kept checks for deposit. Nor was it in my purse. I searched all around the house where I had been and in the garage. I checked the trash, under beds, every nook and crany. I was fairly certain that I had put it in my back pocket but desperately hoped I might have put it somewhere else and forgotten I had.

After I had searched all over, high and low, in and out, I had a last desperate thought that I had put it on the counter and Danny and taken it to deposit it instead. I admit, I really didn't want to ask because if he didn't have it, it would mean I had been irresponsible and the dreaded reality of what I was pretty sure had happened, would be real.

I asked Danny... no, he didn't have it. My heart sunk and I knew that it must have fallen out of my pocket along the way of my walk. I was especially distressed since it was a mildly windy day and the only place I had stopped was in front of the bridge to nowhere. There is a beautiful bridge that leads into nowhere, the wilderness, as we call it, behind our house. They were supposed to build several more houses back there but they ran out of funds. I had stopped with Tiki and Tyson in front of that spot. I was afraid it had blown out into the wilderness since the wind was blowing that way.

I go back the way I had went straining my eyes at every single little spec that could be a folded up check. What were the odds of finding it? Very slight but worth a search. When I couldn't find it, Danny went out to try to look for it, to no avail.

Danny could ask for another check but how would that look about how responsible he (rather me) is. Plus, it would take a few days and we could really use the money now.

I ask the one person to find it that I KNOW can find it. I got down on my knees in my bedroom and pleaded with Heavenly Father to help me find the check rather than make an object lesson out of it for me. I told him I knew he knew where it was and that he could have it returned to me.

By this time, it is time to pick up the kids from school. I am running a little late. I strain my eyes on all sides of the road for a piece of paper. I especially look at the intersection of the bridge to nowhere. I can't see it anywhere. I go pick up Kierstin. I am running her back home before I pick up Bryce and Brian all the while searching. When I get to the corner of the turn into our neighborhood and the bridge to nowhere what do I see? On the ground on the corner, right in the middle of the grassy area is a folded piece of paper resisting the breeze pushing against it. I startle Kierstin by telling her to jump out and grab that piece of paper....

Do I even need to tell you that it was the check? Do I need to even say that it WAS an ABSOLUTE answer to my prayer? That Heavenly Father is mindful of each one of us and all of our trivial little problems? Do I need to tell you that I walked by, biked by and drove twice by that very spot all the while searching? Is this not PROOF that Heavenly Father ABSOLUTELY, CERTAINLY AND FOR REAL answered my prayer? I attest to you that he did!! There are no coincidences in life. I have lived through too many of these kinds of experiences to tell you that God is REAL. He bestows tender mercies upon me so many times. Would it have been devestating to not find the check? No. Danny could have asked for another one. Would it have been a good lesson for me to be more responsible, Absolutely!! But Heavenly Father bestowed a tender mercy upon me even though I was careless as he has done so many times before.

This was truly a tangible example of the Lord answering my prayers and in a way that I could share it with my kids. They could see how crazy it was for me to have been able to find that check, hours later on a breezy day. It was like it was put right there, at that moment for me to find . I would like to thank the helper angel that did it. Mostly, I want to express gratitude to a tender Father in Heaven who expressed his love to me that day.

Thanksgiving 2009

2010-01-18T15:49:00.000-08:00

Bryce was writing a paper for school on his family Thanksgiving traditions. He chose to talk about how we go to the desert dirt bike riding. Funny, I didn't really consider it a "tradition" before, but he's right. For the last 5 years we have been going with Danny's brother Dave and his family out to the desert to go dirt biking.

I have to admit I really do look forward to going every year. This year, we weren't sure we would be able to go. But we managed to go at the last minute. We we were all happy to be able to go.

Not only do we enjoy riding the dirt bikes, but we love visitng with Dave, Linda and whichever their kids are able to make it. We have the full on Thanksgiving meal in the desert. Turkey, stuffing, mashed potatoes, gravy, yams, salad, the full spread. This year it was especially tasty!!

We have gone to Johnson's dry Lake Bed in Lucerne Valley for several years. However, that has got CRAZY crowded. Last time we were they they had to med-lift someone out. We decided to try over in Yucca Valley by Joshua tree again. We had went there 2 years ago and enjoyed it. It was a good pic. Not crowded, Joshua Tree was close by and the weather was GORGEOUS!!

Danny's dad and brother Derek with his 2 kids, Ben & Ava met us on Friday and stayed till Saturday with us. Good times had by all...

Dave & Linda with Danny, Bryce & Brain

Bradley with a friend he met that was a friend of Dave's son.

Bryce & Brain, Again..

Kierstin & Ann Marie
(I missed Sam!! She must have went back for 2nds! boo)

Danny & Derek & Fred working on "quadzilla"

Brian got to ride the quad solo this year! He was excited

we could hardly pry him off it.

When we did, this is where he would be,

next to Bryce in front of gaming of course.

The face of fun!

When it was Ava's turn to ride the quad. Ben & Brian got in some

air soft time!

Tyson would hitch a ride with whomever he could.

Especially with Opa on quadzilla!!

Another satisfied rider!

Unfortunately, this is the only pic I got of Bryce waiting to take a turn on the 90.
He became really proficient on it this time. WHOOT Bryce!!

Boy + dirt = FUN!!

Boy + Dirt + Dog + Friend your age = GOOD TIMES!!

I realize I didn't do such a great job taking pics this time around. You'll have to take my word for it that fun was had by all!

Thanksgiving Traditions

2010-01-18T15:37:00.000-08:00

One of the wonderful things to look forward to during the holidays are the family traditions. I know many families do this tradition. We simply call it "Thankful Tom."

We started when Kierstin was like 3. I just told a story about a turkey at Thanksgiving named Tom. He managed to escape the farmer's table and so he gave a blessing he was thankful for for each of his feathers.

We usually do this the first week in November and display them on the front door to help us remember just how much we have to be thankful for.

Tyson: mom and dad, Ga (what he's calling Brian these days. We don't know why since he can say Brian), Bryce, Bradley & Kierstin, toys and nursery class.
Brain: Church, house, food, family, school, bike, bed
Bryce: Clothes, family, home, church, body, school, & food
Brad: family, friends, home, temple, scriptures, prayer
Mom: health & strength, food & clothes, temple, to live in fulness of times, book of mormon,
promise land, a loving husband who holds the Priesthood & awesome children who CTR!!
Dad: friends (especially church friends, freedoms & choices, body, gospel & testimony, bed
when I'm tired, family: sons, daughter & wife.

Kierstin was busy with homework this FHE. This is as far as her turkey got!

It is especially good this year with all we have going on to be reminded that we truly are blessed with so much!!

Camping at Cuyamaca

2009-11-22T23:19:00.000-08:00

A purchase that we made that went a little above our means but I don't feel so guilty about is our trailer. I had always been camping as a kid. My dad took us to all sorts of little nooks and crannies that were off the beaten path when we lived in Utah.

I treasure all those memories. Even the ones where we had to set up the tent (you know the old fashioned kind where everyone has to have a pole to hold onto until they all get set up!) in the rain. When it was hard to get the fire going cuz it was too wet. Half the tent falling down in the night. Ahh, what adventure!

So when I married Danny and he said he liked to go camping we got all the gear. Which proved to be useful since he ended up being scout master for the next 7 years.

However, when he decided to get back into dirt bikes and we went out into the middle of nowhere, which was really terrific, don't get me wrong, until I asked where the bathroom facility was and he handed me the tp and a shovel! And come to find out, most ORV sites are like that, self contained. It was easy to talk me into the trailer.

In any case, I do feel guilty we don't take it out enough. So I planned a little weekend trip in mid October. I just chose some random state park in San Diego county since I haven't really been anywhere there except the beach camping, which I prefer Northern sites to southern in beach camping.

I was curious, and hopeful that it would be somewhat forested (I'm not fond of desert camping unless we have the dirt bikes)

I have to say I was more than pleasantly surprised. We arrived in the dark of night. Managed to find our spot, make a fire, roast s'mores and settle down for a pleasant night. It seemed like it would be pretty at night. It was really lovely in the morning.

It was called Lake Cyamaca, although we camped in the campground a few miles up. Unfortunately it had been 90% ravaged by the 2003 San Diego fires. Trees that were 500 years old had died although some were making a comeback. It was so interesting to see this once majestic forest, although just devasted, was making a comeback.

That morning, some firefighters came through the camp advertising a fundraising BBQ they were having that afternoon. We had planned on eating in the historic town of Julian but decided since someone was going to get our money it would be nice to give it to a good cause. Plus, I heard firefighters new how to BBQ so we decided to test it. We were rewarded by an incredible meal for a killer price. We gave the extra money we would have spent as a donation to the firehouse. It was so fun!

Here are the pics in random order...

Dad and Brad enjoying a yummy BBQ

Super Yummy BBQ!!

(FYI, firefighters can sure make a killer cooking fire!)

Even Tyson and Brian dug in!

Kierstin's going to kill me for posting this one..

Sorry Kierst, it's the only proof I have you were with us!

(note, be more camera friendly next time!)

Danny, Bryce, Brian, Ty & Myself were fortunate enuogh to get in on the ranger guided hike.

He explained all the history of the area and how the forest was making a comeback.

For miles and miles, this is what you see. You can just imagine how lush and beautiful it must have been. However, you can see all the shorter greenery coming in to make a comeback.

It's really mother nature reinventing herself, wonderous!

What has Brian been caughting eating one too many of? Hmmm....

Proof that boys never tire of being "king of the mountain!"

Tyson was dead asleep when we got there. Never know it by this pic.

He perked right up when he heard the words "fire and s'mores!"

Have to have proof mom was there too!

K Bryce, I think you're having a little too much wild & crazy fun!!

What boy doesn't love a good fire?

Especially one they helped dad build.

I think this is proof enough of the fun we had.

Can't have fun without getting down and dirty tootsies!!

The Scooter

2009-11-22T22:55:00.000-08:00

The other day Bryce asked me if I remembered something that happened a couple of years ago that really was one of those unusual moments with a lesson learned. Since this blog is used mostly for a journal of what goes on in our family, I thought I would start documenting some of these little past moments so that they will be down for my kids to reflect on.

This is what Bryce wanted me to relate...

About 3 years ago I was sitting downstairs one morning at about 9:00 a.m. in our living room. Bradley comes running down the stairs with tears in his eyes. He was about 9 at the time. I thought he had fallen out of bed (he slept on the top bunk) or something. He finally calmed down a bit and breathed out that he just saw some guy take his scooter off our front porch! His room window was above the front porch. Since he slept on the top bunk he happened to look down and see this happen.

I should mention that Bradley had lost his first scooter and saved his own money to buy this one. So you can imagine how he was feeling.

I throw open the door and ran out to the street to take a look and sure enough, there was the kid making his way down the street.

I ran into the house, got my keys, started the car and raced down the street after him. By that time he was out on the main street but I was a mom on a mission. I caught up to him, rolled down the window and asked him who's scooter he had? I KNOW I caught him off gaurd. He stuttered around and I rephrased the question, "what the heck did he think he was doing taking my son's scooter."

He stammered around and finally lamely said "I was late to work and saw it on your porch and took it." I asked him where he worked, he said Juice it Up, which was in that general direction. I told him to hand over the scooter and he better give me his mother's real phone number right away or I was calling the police.

He gave me a number. I called it right away (thank goodness I brought my purse with phone.) It was the wrong number!! I told him to think carefully again, he gave me her name and number. He said she was at work. I got a voice mail and left a message for her to call me right away.

I let the kid walk the rest of the way to work. The mom called me an hour later. I related what had happened. She was apologetic and cited that he had been hanging around the "wrong crowd" recently and his behavior had been off. She said she would have him come and apologize to Bradley.

Did he ever... no. I was disgusted by that. I guess I should have called her back. But I didn't. In fact, Bradley's scooter was stolen several months later. I have to admit I wonder if it was him.

In any case, we all had a good discussion about stealing and how wrong it is.

We discusssed the lessons learned:

#1: How do the poor victims feel? Bradley felt so bad. He worked so hard for the money for that scooter!

#2: How dumb to do something like that. Eventually, you get caught doing something wrong and you have to pay for it in some way. I could have called the police and he would have had it on his record for a while, for what, a dumb scooter!

#3: Even if no person on earth catches you, Heavenly Father knows and then you really pay!

#4: One bad thing leads to another. If he had gotten away with taking the scooter. What was he going to tell his mom about where he got it. He would have had to lie!

#5: It's important what friends you hang around with. They can persuade you to do bad things!

I prayed that day that my kids would remember that lesson and help them to prevent them from falling prey to doing something like that themselves!

Price of Forgiveness? ... A Corn Dog.

2009-11-13T21:06:00.000-08:00

As you know, I have 4 boys and 1 girl. I have grown up with a dad who served in some various scout position my whole growing up life. I have served consistantly in the Cub Scout program for the past 12 years. Having said that, I have to say that I have come to somewhat understand and appreciate certain aspects of the boy pyschie.

Here is an example of the appreciation I've learned;

I was at the ball field a couple of weeks ago watching one son play ball. I had another son and his friend with me, who were waiting for their game to start. I observed them over on the other side of the field tagging eachother with a baseball. I baseball mind you, not a t-ball; difference being the baseball is rather harder than the t-ball.

Of course, with my mom eye, I could see where this was going. However, the boys should be old enough by now to have figured it out for themselves. But being boys, fun overrules common sense. So this goes on for a little while until my son's friend catches him offguard and pegs him in the shoulder blade a little harder than intended. Sure enough, reflex boy action kicks in and my son turns around and pegs his friend with the ball pretty hard. Yes, that hurt!

My son, is of course, apologetic but to no avail. He turns and looks in my direction. We make that mother-son non-verbal contact of "I saw the whole thing!" I raise an eyebrow and turn away.

10 minutes later he comes over and sits besides me and announces he has lost one of his best friends. I tell him I'm sure it isn't that bad. "Yes it is. I said I was sorry and he said he didn't forgive me!" I tell him it would probably take me a while to forgive him too when I was writhing in pain. Of course my son wasn't convinced.

I bit later I give him a few $$ to go over and get a hotdog to eat and suggest that he take some of the $$ and get his friend one too. He looked at me dubiously and said "why would I do that when he's not even my friend? Besides, I wanted a hot chocolate too." I gave him the "raised eyebrow" and told him to suit himself but that was all the money I had.

I while later I notice my son walking over to his non-friend and handing him corn dog; in essense a peace offering. Said friend takes the proffered corn dog. No words spoken. A few minutes later, my son and his "nonfriend" are at least sitting in the same bleacher section.

By the time my other son was done with his game my son and his friend were standing next to eachother. I left the field to take the first son home.

When I came back to the game later on to watch the end and pick him up I notice the two laughing it up and talking as normal. I chuckle and relate all that had happened to the friends' father.

His response... "They had their first fight? Cool!" (typical)

You may find this boring and trivial but I am sitting here busting up. I have really come to love this about the boy physcie. For the most part they can have a tiff or blow up one moment and the next it's all forgiven and forgotten and back to the next match! I have to admit, and from some personal experience I must admit, that this is not so true of girls. Definately a saving grace!

Happy 15th Birthday Kierstin!!

2009-11-01T22:10:00.000-08:00

My darling little daughter 15 years ago

October 22, 1994.

My sweet girl on her baptism day
7 years ago!

My beautiful 15 year old young woman!!

How does that happen? That I have a 15 year old Sophmore in High School?!#
I was just in high school myself, at least it feels like it; I admittedly know I don't look it. I remember vividly looking at moms saying, I don't feel like I'm thirty or forty something. It seems like yesterday! I used to really look at them and wonder at that. Like how could you not feel like it when you so look like it? I really used to scoff to myself. Now I KNOW and most of all feel what they meant. I am them, now!

Now I'm looking at my daughter, my precious gift from God and wondering, did I do a good enough job and I'm freaking out! I only have 2 1/2 more years and she's off on her own, to start her own life. To use the tools that I've hopefully helped her acquire to be able to navigate her way through her own life! She's almost all grown up and leaving me!

I remember those "old" ladies stopping me in the grocery lines and telling me to "treasure the time when they're young cuz it goes so fast!" As my daughter is pitching a MAJOR fit in the checkout line because I won't let her buy some candy. At that moment in time it was hard to not think "how am I going to miss this! It can't possibly go by fast enough!" Wisdom comes from experience, full circle. And here I am, the old lady, echoing those sentiments to the next generation. It does go by so incredibly fast.

It really hits when you look back through those captured moments in time. The cards she wrote, the books she made me, the pictures of those special moments and even walking past the little girl section at Target and knowing I'm past all those special moments! They really are times to be treasured!

And how I treasure them! Kierstin, you have really turned out to be a gem! It used to annoy me to no end that you would refuse to try things or do things but I realize now, that you are very selective about what you endeavor to do because you apply yourself 100% in what you choose to do. You expect to excel and do not settle for less. What a great characteristic that is going to serve you so well in life!

It took patience to suffer through your meticulous way of doing things. Erasing things over and over cuz it wasn't just the way you wanted. Reading things and asking questions over and over again to make sure you understood the task at hand. Now I am so proud of you and your excellence in school and achieving a 4.o GPA!!

I used to get so frustrated with your stubborn side when you would refuse to ride in the stroller, sit in the high chair or ride in the car seat. You didn't care what other kids were doing, you wanted it your way. Now I am so grateful for that obstinance as you apply it to not giving in to what the current fashions or trends are. You are not in the least bit swayed to do something if you do not feel it's right and you don't care what others think!

You are amazing in every way. I am so enjoying watching you bloom into this righteous daughter of God. I feel privileged to be your mother and appreciate the lessons you teach me. It is now my prayer you may continue on the path you're on! I LOVE you and always will!

~mom

Kierstin's Birthday Celebration!

Started with the traditional favorite bday breakfast with

birthday wish warmer upper!

(even though it was 5:30 am before seminary!)

Then... it was off to DLand after school

(since you don't want to miss for fear of falling behind

so got to admire you for that!)

Got her $72 credit to spend as she wishes!

Feel so fortunate Kierstin thought it would be a fun birthday to hang

with her mom for the evening (thanks to Brad & Dad for holding down the fort at home!)

Met up with Aunt Ann who shares the same bday as Kierstin!

Ann was 12 when I was expecting Kierstin.

When she found out my due date was her bday she was ever so excited and kept saying

"that would be such an awesome bday present if my niece was born on my bday!"

Just proves, wishes do come true!

Kierstin putting her ASL to the test.

(Erin, what's the sign?)

The happiest place on earth!!

Prepare to be soaked!

Me and my littlest sister! It always amazes me to see her in pics.

She'll always be 12 to me!

The following Sunday we had Ann, my sister Mary and my Aunt Jayna over

for birthday celebrations!

Mary, Jayna, Kierstin & Ann!

Happy Birthday to my favorite girlies!!

Fred's Birthday

2009-10-13T20:31:00.000-07:00

July 30, 2009, was Fred's 30th birthday. His wife Teri, threw a birthday bash for him the Saturday before. All of us that live around came to celebrate.

I have to say that you can see where Danny gets his good looks from! Fred sure looks good for 70!

In case you don't know, "Opa" means grandpa in Dutch. Fred is full blown Dutch. He lived through the Natzi occupation of his country Holland. He was 8 years old then and really has some amazing stories to tell. He came with his family to America when he was 16 years old.

Several years ago, I was browsing through the church book store and came across a little journal called "Grandpa, tell me your story." It was a little journal for granparents to give to their grandchildren reminiscing their childhood memories. There was a page for each day of the year and asked the grandparent to relate a specific story about his life. Such as "tell me about your favorite teacher." "Tell me a favorite story with your maternal grandma." "What was your favorite pasttime as a child." I had a strong impression to pick one up and give it to Fred to fill out. I had a feeling that he would complete it. I picked one up for all of the other grandparents too. It was around Christmas time. I gave each one to the grandparents telling them that it would be their Christmas present to us the following year.

Sure enough, the following Christmas Fred handed me back the completed book! What a treasure! The kids have absolutely LOVED to hear stories about Opa. Everything from finding out that he owned a sailboat and loved to sail when he was young, to purposely step in cowpies when he was young (you read it right) because it was warm on his toes, to more serious things like what he witnessed during the Natzi occupation in Holland. We are thrilled to have it, it is priceless.

Fred is an awesome Opa. He is always thinking of fun things to do with the kids and is always calling to just talk to them to see how they are doing. They love him. They are so lucky to have such a wonderfully thoughtful Opa.

The kids in attendance: Derek, Debbie, Fred, Danny & Daren

getting all the grandkids to cooperate for a pic is not easy.

I think this was as good as it got. At least everyone was in it!

Happy Birthday and Every day Fred!!

I LOVE my job!

2009-09-14T15:33:00.001-07:00

I have been blessed to be able to stay at home, full time, with my kids for the past 15 years, their whole lives. That really, truly is a tremendous blessing in this day and age; especially, having lived in Orange County, CA, one of the most expensive places to live. AND the fact that Danny is self-employed. He has worked really hard all these years to make sure that I can stay home with my kids. I am so thankful that he understands the value of mom being home at all times. That there are those special little life moments whern you here the spirit whisper that it is an opportune moment to plant the seed of an invaluable lesson in their hearts.

It has been so valuable to be able to be at the kids' school and work in the classroom. To get to know the environment that they are in away from home. To get a glimpse of what they go through. It has helped me help shape their way into forging some really great frienships. It has helped me understand that I need to cut them some slack cuz their teacher is a little to harsh. I can do a sneak drive by at recess to see that maybe it's not that "nobody will play with them," but rather they just don't want to play what everyone else is playing. Cuz for sure every time I drove by for the last two weeks you were playing happily with someone!

It is also the peace and comfort of knowing that if you don't feel good, or forgot something, or something just goes wrong, you know there is someone to rescue you. I can say that because that is how I always felt. Even though we may not have always seen eye to eye, I felt emmense peace and comfort in knowing that mom was there for me.

I am not, by any means, saying I am better than the mother that has to go out and work, no way. We all do what we have to do. We listen to the spirit and we are all meant to follow a different course. In fact, I am facing, in this economy, the fact that I need to do something that will help contribute monetarily to my family now. With the economy the way it is, missions, colleges, marriage and the fact that we'd like to retire someday, it just has become a necessity.

So I guess, I have been thinking of the tremendous blessing that I have been able to enjoy for these last years. Most importantly, I think I have become aware of what an emmense blessing it has been when there have definately been many times when I have been pressured into feeling like I don't do enough because I do not help my family out in any temporal ways. During those times, I have prayed and the answer has been clear to me that what I was doing was of more value than I realized. I have been grateful for those sweet assurances. The job of mother is really a partnership in helping the work of our Heavenly Father go forward. What can be more important than that? NOTHING. So of course, that is why we are led to feel so pressured and insecure about our role.

I am writing this personal note, because my blog, is really a journal for my family. I am hopefully going to be able to give a copy to each child. When Kierstin reads through this, and she is feeling the same pressure and having the same doubts, she will realize that she was not alone in feeling this and that mother is to be first and foremost in her life. Even though we do still feel it is important for her to get her college education.

I am writing this so that when my 4 boys read this, they will realize they must do all they can to help their wives to stay home with their kids like their dad did for them. They had that blessing and they owe it to their kids if it in their ability after doing all they can do. For without the support of the husband, mom's job seems just such an insurmountable task.

So, I want to express my gratitude at being able to being able to give my all to the best job in the world!!

Flip Flop from flip flops?!!!

2009-08-25T21:49:00.000-07:00

Everyone who knows me knows this about me......

Like it says......... I LOVE flip flops!

You can hardly find me wearing anything else, especially living in sunny southern CA.

Rain or shine, flip flops are fine.

This is my closet....

It has to be REALLY cold or we have to be doing a pretty knarly hike for me to even consider covering my feet. I can't stand shoes! I would wear flip flops to the gym if I could, seriously.

I'm not so sure my husband is so fond of this fettish. What would give me that idea? Here is Friday's phone conversation...

"Hi dear. How's work?"

"It was good. I'm on my way home." (he commutes now)

"When will you be home?"

"About 45 minutes... Hey, I was listening to this radio show and they were talking about how it's probably not a good idea to wear flip flops all the time."

"Really, why is that?"

"Apparently they pick up all sorts of bacteria. You can bring them into your home and make you really sick!"

"Really?" (sardonically)

"Yeah. You should probably make sure you get new ones pretty often. "(that actually was some advice to consider).

"Huh. Well, I heard that theory before too. However, the time I heard it I heard the opposing side call in and say the same goes for any type of shoe. All shoes pick up bacteria. They suggested everyone should leave their shoes at the door. So I guess really, we shouldn't be wearing shoes in the house."

"Yeah, well." Conversation over.

"See you soon dear."

you should know, Danny wears his shoes ALL the time and does not like going into homes where you have to take them off at the door.

You should also know that Danny has baby soft feet! They are really to envy.

Mine are rough and tough kind of feet, like a construction workers hands but worse. I try really hard to make sure that my heels are not always dirty and cracked and super dry but it really is a tough battle. Needless to say, they are very calloused and not fun to rub up next to in bed.

Maybe I should take this as a hint? I guess I may be losing the battle.

No, I'm sorry, can NEVER get rid of my flip flops. But I guess I should consider a rougher pumice stone!

Sorry dear!!

** DISCLAIMER... This is not EXACLTY how the conversation went down but the main gist of it!

Bradley Turns 12!!

2009-08-10T22:02:00.000-07:00

FYI

I have tried to scan pics of Brad as a baby in this post but our new scanner is UNCOPERATIVE!!!

So, I will post later when I have time to figure it out!!

(the frustration rather than joy of new electronics!!)

When Bradley was first born I would look at the deacons passing the sacrament, I would

look at Bradley and think "that will be you someday too soon!"

Too true, TOO SOON!!

I don't know how time flies by but it does. My darling, dimpled baby boy is growing

into a handsome, dimpled young man.

He's smart, cute (not just cuz I'm his mom), courteous, outgoing, a social bug

AND he's as tall as me..... at 12!!

Somehow I thought this day would take a bit longer.

Mostly I look at him and see the wonderful young man that he is and the even

more wonderful man he will become.

Bradley had his Priesthood interview a week before his birthday.

He passed, with one thing to take care of....

This is Bradley before

This is Bradley after...

Can you tell what's different?

SO HANDSOME!!

(thank you Bishop!)

Of course I will always love Bradley, no matter the hairstyle.

You'll have to ask him why on earth it took him this long to tame

that mane of curly hairtastrophe!!

So Obedient (in the end)

Such a great example to your 3 younger brothers!

Bradley's actual birthday was on Sunday so he was able to receive the Priesthood on his actual birthday. I know the important thing is that you receive it at all, but it does make it more memorable.

They do the Priesthood ordination in the home with a member or two of the Bishopric presiding along with the family.

Of course all if us, your immediate family, were there and Ann, Mary & Patty Shepard.

My parents and Michael came all the way from Utah for the ordination.

Actually, my dad has been so excited he has seriously been talking about how he was planning to come for it for almost a year.... NO EXAGERATION!

For any of you that know my dad, you know what a very jolly guy he is. Jolly is the perfect word because it expresses the fact that he's not just inwardly happy but outwardly happy as well. He is always so possitive and up. But when he is excited about something, he really shows it. Needless to say, it is super fun to share exciting news with my dad cuz he will literally, jump up and down and scream (literally) for joy with you.

In any case, it rubbed off on Bradley. He felt it and it made it seem all the more special!!

Dad even gave him a family history book about how each of the Davis line joined the gospel.

Super special!

Only bummer, I forgot to take a pic of my mom. She has always been so supportive and let me know from an early age how important the Priesthood is and that it does not in any way demean women that they don't receive it. Women play a different and just as important roll.

I knew that it was important and wanted it in my life always. After all, she'd say. Men don't bless themselves with it, they can only bless others.

And of course I found a man who honors and respects his Priesthood. He has been a good example for Bradley to see. I know that he loves his dad and wants to emulate him in every way and that is one reason he has decided to live worthy to hold it himself.

Brother Fronk, who was presiding, asked that dad and I bear our testimonies of the Priesthood. Dad asked Grandpa Robin to bear his too. Then, dad ordained you to the Aaronic Preisthood, office of deacon. Then your new scout leader, Brother Morris and your new Quorum President, Ben Cole, bore their testimonies. It was a very lovely ordination.

And worthy you are Brad!! We love you so much and are so grateful you are on the right path.

Happy Birthday and every day!!

Kierstin & Renee

2009-07-29T10:27:00.000-07:00

The hardest part of moving is knowing how much you will so miss your friends. Those kind of friends you've spent a lifetime building all of those treasured life moments with.

Kierstin and Renee have been friends since Renee moved into our ward when she was only 2.

Renee is our official daughter #2.

Where there was Kierstin, there was Renee, where you saw Renee, there was Kierstin.

Renee shared Kierstin's bedroom, had her own floorspace. She had followed the same rules, and would get called out for treating Bradley like a real brother. She was even called on to giveblessings and family prayers.

Unfortunately, she does not get to come over as often as we like now. However, when she does, it's back to the same ol' same ol'.

Renee likes to "cook something up" when she comes over

(although I must admit sometimes it turns out better than others.

Lesson learned last time; you need to turn off the heat before

you add the rice cripspies or they get a bit too crispy!!)

These monkey cupcakes were the bomb this visit...Renee found them in a magazine.

Renee likes to wear her creations!!

(this pic doesn't show the lovely brown glob against the black! Giggle!!)

Final result...

They were so darling!
(cupcakes too)

I don't know if you can see, but they each had a different expression!
So clever! If it was me, they'd all had looked like the one in the magazine!

This dead one, was my fav!

Renee's birthday is July 3. We had a surprise belated birthday cake...

Who me?... I'm sure she wished she could be closer!

Cathching up with an old friend, Callie Campbell

They're oh so cool, in the pool!All good friends need "s'more" good times like this!!

You know you're good friends when you don't really have to "do" anything

to enjoy eachother's company!

Love you Renee, come again soon!

4th Fun starts July off with a BANG!!

2009-07-29T09:34:00.000-07:00

I LOVE the 4th of July. I am extremely patriotic. I know that this country was established by the hand of God and set aside as a foundation from where the Lord could restore his church. Many brave men and women have put their lives on the line to make this a land of freedom. this is one of my very favorite pictures. Everytime I look at it it brings tears to my eyes. I know that men like George Washington, were called of God and sent to earth at that specific time to help bring forth the Lord's work.

We had established strong July 4th traditions in H.B. Our incredibly talented Stake put on a 4th of July production every year that was truly an amazing and inspiring way to start the 4th. We'd then have friends over for a soccer or kick ball game at the park. Back to our house for a BBQ and then fireworks in the street and the big finale ones at the Pier. I was so sad that we were going to be missing out on our 10 year traditional way of celebrating.

Fortunately, we were able to coax our dear friends the Ritters, who thankfully brought miss Renee for us and the Arnolds out to visit us for a day of swimming, relaxing and enjoying one another's company:

Kierstin, Renee and Alex enjoying the day!

Jeff, determined to get those hips a turning!

Alex, so patriotic!

Junebug torture!

1st started with, Brian & Sophie, "Look I caught one!" to

big brothers putting them down shirts!

(poor junebugs!)

the big brother mischief makers

Nathan, Bradley & Matt

(yes, Mat's hand is wrapped from almost tearing off the tip of his ring finger

a few days before!!)

Fireworks weren't as great this year. The city of Murrieta has their big shabang the weekend before to celebrate the city's birthday and we weren't sure how sticky the city would be about doing it ourselves but we did set off a few.

Pool fun in the earlier afternoon:

Jeff decided to take advantage of the moment! Sophie's such a good sport!

In H.B., Brian had mostly guy friends, except for Sophie. Other girls have offered time and again the play with Brian. When I ask him why he doesn't want to play with them he'll say,

"they're girls and I don't want to play girl stuff!"

When I pointed out Sophie was a girl and he loves to play with her he said;

"well mom, she's SHOPHIE!!"

They play so great together. Sorry guys, we have an arranged marriage in the works for Sophie and Brian!

Jeff and his dad

Brad & Nathan enjoying the pool

Bryce's cannonball surprise!

Thank you dear friends for making another very fun 4th of July celebration!!

Cub Camp

2009-07-29T09:28:00.000-07:00

I forgot to add Bryce's Cub Scout summer camp experience to our June activities. It happened the week right after school got out.

After surviving the first day which was "not fun." Bryce decided (after much encouragement) to give it another go. And he did have more fun the remainder of the week. It helped that he had his good buddy Ethan in his same group. Which, really was such a great blessing considering he doesn't really know a lot of people in our new den that we got to have so many from the previous den in our group when there were about 20 groups!! That's what I call a tender mercy, I'm ever so grateful for those!!

June Celebrations!

2009-07-18T20:23:00.000-07:00

June is the busiest month of the year for us. We have 3 out of 7 birthdays in June...

Brian's -2nd, Danny's -18th, mine - 19th (yes, Danny totally lucked out. I told him if he ever forgot my birthday... well, he'd be in for it!). School usually gets out on either our birthday week or the week before, then there is usually girl's camp or scout camp that week and father's day!!

Needless to say, we are in a state of constant celebration!! Brian's Bday I already got down.

So, it may be belated but not any less heartfelt.....

Happy Birthday Danny!!!

He's 21... Again!!!

(age is really irrelevant after that point)

We had a favorite dinner of his, crock-pot chicken, heated up the
jacuzzi and soaked it up (so nice!)
and then, ate cake!
Quiet, but nice.

Happy Birthday and EVERY Day Danny!!

The day after was my birthday. Nice day. We heated up the pool (still a bit chilly for me without it!) and all enjoyed a swim. Danny heated up the Barbie and BBQd some yummy chicken for me! So nice he took over the thing I hate most about my job - making dinner!!

Nice relaxing day, did nothing except read and play in the pool and eat chocolate!!

Kierstin was at girl's camp all week and got back on Friday, my birthday. Funny thing, when we moved out here she was excited to hear they usually go to this really great girls camp with GREAT food! She was excited cuz the camp the H.B. stake attends is vegeterian. However, we discovered a couple of months ago that our new Murrieta stake was trying a new camp, the same one the H.B. Stake went to, the dreaded Veggie Camp!! Of course, Kierstin started lamenting to her friends about the vegetarian menu. The leaders were perplexed the girls found out it was vegeterian. They had wanted to keep that under wraps until closer to camp so they wouldn't hear so much moaning and groaning. I had to admit Kierstin had unwittingly spilled the beans. She knew, cuz she'd been there before. It all worked out though. The H.B. stake had tried to keep it under wraps the first year too and realized it was better letting everyone know so they could prepare by bringing beef jerky, etc. She had fun in spite of the menu!

Sunday after Kierstin got back was father's day. Neither mine or Danny's birthday was on father's day this year. However, I never minded sharing my birthday with my dad. We have always been close. He has given me everything money can't buy, which is priceless, a listening ear, a shoulder to cry on and my testimony and a solid knowlege of the functioning and love of the Lord's church and its programs. Most importantly, he has been an example to me! I couldn't have been blessed with a better father!! Happy Father's Day Dad!!

And, of course, a tribute to the special dad of my kid's lives...

Danny, this is one of the main reasons I married you;

I knew you would make a terrific father, and you have.

Danny just googles over Kierstin. He is her biggest fan. He is constantly bragging about her soccer abilities and scholastic abilities and mostly, her spirituality. He'll talk to people about it until they are glazed over.

The boys absolutely adore their dad, they want to be just like him when they grow up.

Dad is a strong, smart, FUN and also a friend.

Dad is the go to guy for fun.

But most importantly, he has a testimony of the gospel that he shares with the kids, constantly. He is always encouraging them to find out for themselves.

And most importantly, he honor and respects his priesthood.

Thank you for being such a great father Danny!

The Jokester in the Family

2009-07-06T23:03:00.000-07:00

Every family member has their own character identification within the family; see if you can figure Bryce's.

Last week, Bryce officially learned how to clean the bathroom. That was his family responsibility for the week, keeping the upstairs bathroom tidy. I showed him how to clean it from the mirrors, to cabinet wipedown and, of course, the yucky toilet. He was actually rather cheerful about it as he has tired of being the duster and toy picker upper.

So, on Wednesday evening I was in the kitchen, doing the dishes. Bryce comes in, looks at me a few moments and says "mom, why are you using the toilet brush in here?"

"Of course I'm not Bryce, this is a dish brush."

He gets this wide-eyed "uh-oh" look on his face and says "Oh NO! I just used that to clean the toilet!" That was the first day I'd let him have a go at it by himself.

I just looked at him and looked at the brush in my hand. Yes, I guess I could see how it did look similar to the toilet brush. My mind was quickly running over all the things I had washed with it during the day ready to turn out my cabinets and SCOUR EVERYTHING including our mouths! I was REPULSED!!

I turn to look at him again, not sure what to say and he starts laughing hysterically.....

"Just Kidding MOM!"

Ha, Ha, Bryce; You're so NOT the funny guy!

(but you sure got your mom!)

Tyson's First Disneyland Day!

2009-06-25T23:11:00.000-07:00

June 8, 2009..

Was Tyson's first day at Disneyland. We LOVE Disneyland. We first got annual passes when Kierstin was not quite 2. We've had them, I figure, about 9 years of her almost 15 years, at least. We stopped when they hit $130 verses the $99 they used to be. But, we got them this year.

We didn't take Ty with us on Brian's birthday. Part of me felt guilty at the time but I was so glad we didn't. He wouldn't have had as much fun and neither would Brian. So I took them back, even on a school night, because the rest of the summer was going to be blacked out (who wants to go then anyway?)

Danny didn't get to go cuz he was working (so we could go, thanks hun!!)

First ride, the tram of course. He was SOO excited.

We took 3 of the Campgell kids with us.

The older kids didn't want to go on the "baby ride" but Brian decided to share

in Tyson's special day. (what a bro!)

First stop, something familiar, the horses .

Opposite end of the spectrum, creepy Pinnochio!

(I don't know why they don't redo that ride)

Casey Jr. was so interesting it didn't warrant mom taking a pic!

Eager anticipation for what's next. Tyson really did stop to "smell the flowers" here.
I love how Disneyland pays attention to detail!

Can't miss small world, He loved every bit!

Eagerly anticpating what's next in Jungle Cruise

Pooh Bear, by far the favorite. Went on it 4 times in a row!

Bryce & Ethan caught us for the last 2 rides.

Bryce climbed Tarzan Treehouse with us while we waited up for our final ride...

PIRATES!

I think we can safely say, Tyson had so much fun till he couldn't take it anymore!

Darlene & Doug take the Eternal Plunge!

2009-06-25T23:02:00.000-07:00

So I posted a few back, how my sister-in-law and her husband, Doug, decided to be baptized. Well, they did it!! Doug even postponed his first round of chemo so he could go. They weren't going to stop him he said!

Bradley actually missed the last day of school so he could drive 11 hours, with Danny to Pie Town, New Mexico to be there for the big event. I was glad the 2 of them could spend some time together, especially at such a spiritual even as Bradley will be receiving the Priesthood next month.

When they got there, Darlene surprised Danny by asking her to baptize and confirm her! They said it was a wonderful event. They have a small brach there, 30 people. They do have a chapel, a very small chapel. Bradley was so amazed. The cultural hall wasn't much bigger than our living room with the font. They went to church with them the next day. There were like 30 people there. Still, I think it was neat to see that even in a small town of 500 people, you can find the church with people, kind and gracious and caring as anywhere else and being taught the same thing. Bradley and Danny were practically glowing when they came home!

We are all praying for Doug and Darlene that they will be able to make it to the next step, the temple!

Unfortuantely, Danny forgot to take any pics at the baptism but here are some of the scenery on the way there. An experience to remember! (hope you posted it in your own journal, Brad)

Moving Up!

2009-06-25T22:32:00.000-07:00

June is always such a crazy month for us. If I can get all the posts in, you'll see why

(and it's not even over yet!!)

The kids officially got out of school 2 weeks ago, on June 12.

Kierstin made it through her frosh year

Brad, the first year (6th) of middle school

Bryce is onto being an offical "upper grader" in elementary (4th, year next)

and Brain... has made it with flying colors through kidnergarten...

we were so glad dad could make it too!

I have to give a special kudos to Brian for surviving his kidnergarten year, really.

This is Mrs. Krahn. She was really nice and we enjoyed her for the last 3 weeks of school.

Not only that, she was his 3rd teacher for the year. Yes, #3!!

When we moved here at the beginning of the school year, we came in 2 days after the school year had officially started. He started with a wonderful teacher, Mrs. Romano. He LOVED her. In mid-October she told me that she heard they would be switching students around. They had over 20 kids in each class which is a no-no if you want state funding. She said how much she loved Brian and told the Principal that she didn't mind have 21 if she could just keep him. she asked I put up a fight for it, us being new and all.

My heart sunk. I've been in the PTA trenches and know how it works. No one wants to get switched. The last on the totem poll, the last to enroll, are shuffled around. How else do you choose? So when the dreaded phone call came, I was ready. I wasn't prepared for the switch from morning to afternoon time which did not go over well for Brian. I think he had had it with change, too much moving around literally. I did make a plea, but, predictably, I got the "your the lowest on the totem poll" speal.

So on to Mrs. Barrett's class we went (Have to find a pic of her). She was great but brand new and young and not as fun as experienced Mrs. Romano. Brian learned to love her. The upside, there were only 12 kids in his class from October on!

I got a phone call 3 days later telling me 3rd grade was at its capacity too. They hired a new teacher for that one and of course, Bryce was low on the totem pole. He liked Mrs. Castillo; his friend was in his class. He didn't mesh so well with stern Mr. Ennis who truly piled out homework. That on top of bullying made Bryce look forward to the idea we would be in a new school boundary.

Then, we moved into our new home here in Copper Canyon. We are in a new school boundary. The boys actually said they wanted to switch over right away but I didn't think they realized what that meant. They didn't really ever mesh at Tovashall (especially Bryce) but I didn't think it would be healthy to switch them the last 6 weeks of school. I talked them into staying.

Bad mistake. I kept hearing my new neighbors tell me "have you enrolled in school yet? No? You'd better get right over there! They're filled up!"

What did that mean? For this year, right? How can that apply to the next year. If you live in the boundary they have to take you... right? Turns out, no! So different in H.B. Enrollment is down, schools not full. Here, the school really is at its physical capacity. I was 11th on the waiting list. Doesn't look good. However... if I enrolled and they started tomorrow, before the end of the year their priority jumps up over all the waiting list kids and almost gauranteed enrollment... You're KIDDING!

Why is there a waiting list you're thinking? Well, who's crazy enough to uproot their poor child the last 3 weeks of school and put him in a new one?

Fortuantely, this is what the boys wanted all along. They weren't phased. They were phased when I told them there was a slight possibility we might not get into Cole Canyon next year. They didn't want to go back to Tovashall.

So, 3 teachers for 1 year for them both! Bryce ended up really liking his new teacher, Mr. Reagan.

Kudos to my resilient Bryce & Brian!!

Freshman Year DOWN!

2009-06-19T15:07:00.000-07:00

And mom is freaking out!!

I can't believe my daughter has finished her freshman year of HIGH SCHOOL and will be a SOPHOMORE in 2 short months. YIKES!

Logically, you know this day will come. Experienced mothers will look at you with your little ones pitching a fit in the grocery store line and wisely say "treasure the moments, they go by fast." You paste on a "thanks for the tip" grin and go on your way but it's oh so true.

It's hard to remember when you're in the thick of it all to slow down and treasure the moments, truly. Do you have those days where you look at your kids and it's like they've grown right before your eyes? You realize, "good grief, she looks so much older!" I have those days where it seems like I've been away and are just seeing them for the first time again and realize how much they've grown! It's shocking. I have to do a reality check and wonder if I'm teaching her all she needs to know cuz it's getting too late.

I have to say, sending my "little girl" off to high school this year was harder than sending her off to kidnergarten, truly! Taking her for her placement tests, this time last year, I drove away shedding many tears! I remember how fast my high school years passed and I realize it's going to go all the faster being on the mother side of things. I only have 3 more years left with her under my roof (if she gets her way and goes to BYU!)

Mostly, I REMEMBER high school all too clearly. It's like throwing her into the gladiator arena in a way. Did I go over the lessons on how to prepare her self? Did I prepare her with her armor of God to withstand life's cruelest of blows? I got out O.K., but just. I have some scarring to prove it. Can I help her come out as clean as she came in....?

Kierstin, I have to say, you are as prepared as you can be. In fact, I know you will come out much more unscathed than me. You are obedient and true and hardworking and most importantly, on on the course; acadmeically (straight As) and most importantly spiritually!

That medal around her neck.... is for completing her first year of seminary and memorizing all 25 scripture mastery scriptures! YOU GO GIRL!! Dad and I love you and are so proud of you and the path you're on. Just STAY ON IT and you'll be fine!

2009-06-15T22:52:00.000-07:00

A few weeks ago, my friend Heather invited us to tag-along for their playgroup tour of
DeJong Dairy in Lake Elsinore. It was so interesting!! They are the last dairy in Southern CA that actually does all of the dairy processing on the farm. From milking the cows to selling it out of their store. They are not a big dairy, just 500 cows, but they do it all there!

They started us off showing us how they start to teach the baby cows how to eat hay.

Tyson had to have a demonstration that his fingers wouldn't be eaten before he took a turn; even though our tour guide assured them that cows can't really bite you because they have no bottom teeth. (mom is fine with a little caution!)

We were then shown into the bay where they milk the cows. They bring them to this point where the throw down some food and then slide the bars to lock their heads in while they are being milked.

This is a healthy mixture of what they eat. Different grains and COTTON? Who knew that cows eat cotton?

The milk is funneled into the next room where it goes into the containers...

and the lids are stuck on.

We got samples of the chocolate milk (just milked yesterday) and cookies!!

Yes, it was so yummy we bought some to take home. It really is so

fresh and creamy tasting!

There were other animals to look at besides the cows...

I must say this peacock held our attention for quite some time even if the female

peacock he was chasing around didn't give him the time of day!

We fed the goats..... Brian was fascinated by the gineau pig....
I think he told me how cute it was 10 times to

see if he could take it home. Sorry, no such luck!

It was so interesting. We had areally fun time! Thanks Heather!

Brian Turns 6!!

2009-06-11T22:35:00.000-07:00

Inspite of my beggings and pleadings to please stay 5, my normally obeident Brian decided he was going to turn 6. When he asked me why I wanted him to stay 5 I told him he was just the cutest little 5 year old ever!! When he informed me that he would just be the cutest 6 year old and every old forever, well I consented. BUT ONLY because it meant so much to him and I love him so much!!

So, on Tuesday June 2, 2009, Brian woke up as a 6 year old!! I am a big believer in birthdays being the most special of days. So we celebrate right when we wake up until the very end!

We start by having the birthday person's favorite breakfast. Brian requested puff pancakes...

You get one warmer upper candle to help warm up for the big finale birthday wish! It also symbolizes that all important 1st moment of life!!

It was a school day but he got to open up a present we got in the mail that morning from Grandpa Robin, Grandma Carol, Aunt Karalee & Uncle Derrick & Uncle Michael.

This Pic shows just how thoughtful and considerate brother Brian is,

that his younger brother, Tyson is opening one of his presents!!

How did they know you LOVE nerf guns and needed more bullets?

(thanks guys!! Great start to the day!)

Like I mentioned, there was school on Brian's birthday. But it wasn't too bad considering it was a water day and they even got to wear their bathing suits to school!

I picked them up a little early from school and we all headed to Disneyland!

This year, you can get into Disneyland for free on your birthday. In our case, we applied that money for a annual pass. Kierstin and Bradley already had theirs. Everyone got in

except dad who was busy working so we could do such great things like go to Disneyland.

He also stayed home with Tyson so we could enjoy the rides Ty wouldn't be able to go on.

(thanks dad!! He's getting his pass on his bday in 2 weeks)

We got to Disneyland with no traffic. Not only that, we didn't wait in the long lines for tickets. Walked right up to guest services and got it right away!

We got there in time to do the Buzz Lightyear ride with Brian's good buddy, Jeffrey Ritter. They came just to see Brian for his b-day. Unfortuantely, do to a lack of communication on my part, they had to leave right after the ride. They thought we'd be there earlier and I didn't understand they had to leave at 5:00. But it was fun to see him, however brief.

You then drove me crazy (literally) in autopia!!

You then jumped right in full gear, to the Matterhorn ride.. and loved it!

From the extreme of the Matterhorn, to the relative unextreme of Snow White.

Did you know there is a hidden Mickey on every ride in Disneyland?

Bryce and Brian managed to find the one on Snow White all by themselves.

It's in some jewels in the mine.

We took a walk through Sleeping Beauty's Castle.

If you've never walked through, you should. It tells the story of Sleeping Beauty

and it's more than pics. They had renovated it since last time we were there.

It was really cool.

Brian just didn't like the idea of someone stealing his girl! (you can't see Prince Philip due to the flash)

Actually, this is how Brian felt about me calling her his girlfriend.

We then strolled over to the jungle cruise.

The last time we went to Dland, Brian was 3. He doesn't remember really anything. Everything was new and fun. We told him to listen close to the boat driver cuz that was part of the fun of the Jungle Cruise.

Boy, did he listen! He ducked when he was told to duck! So funny Brian. He thought the elephant was going to nail us with a stream of water for sure!

We got a good workout climbing to the top of Tarzan's tree house. What a view!

It sure is high up there!

We spooked ourselves at the Haunted Mansion but I failed to get a pic, darn it!

We had fun and don't need the proof.

Seeing the drop on Splash Mt. didn't deter you...

You hopped right on board...

and acutally avoided getting splashed,

but Kierstin and Bradley didn't (avoid the splash that is!)

We ran over to use our fast passes for Indiana Jones

and made it out to tell about it.We snapped this pic in front of the castle at night. Unfortunately, it didn't

light up in the pic like it was. Too bad, it was beautiful!!

We made it out of the park and waited in line, the longest, 30 minutes for splash Mountain.

Not bad for a summer day!!

It really was a perfect Disneyland birthday!

We got home kinda late, considering it was a school night. Everyone was pooped and went straight to bed.

But no birthday is complete without the birthday cake and wish!

So we continued the celebration to the next evening with cake and ice cream!

May all your wishes come true!!

And I must say...

You really ARE the cutest 6 year old ever!

(and I know you will be cute 4ever too, no matter how many years older you get!)

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY SWEET BRIAN!!!

A few fun 6 year old facts about Brain...

He is the best big brother (as evidenced) and little brother for that matter!
Although he used up most of his crying for the 1st 2 years of his life,
he is really easy going for the most part.
He is always trying to be helpful
He is very obedient and aware of rules.
He has the cutest dimples!
He is thoughtful and considerate.
He has a great vocabulary.

The Best Kind of News!!

2009-06-09T21:23:00.000-07:00

We love Danny's sister Darlene and her husband Doug. They are 2 of the remaining real american "ranchers." When we lived in Huntington Beach, they owned a 7 acre mule ranch in Nuevo, CA. (about 20 minutes from where we live now in Murrieta).

When they bought it, it was pretty run down with a run down trailer on it. They got to start working on it to turn it around. Then they had a fire one year that burned their trailer down and all their belongings along with it!! Not to be deterred, they got a travel trailer to home base from and plowed forward with working on the ranch. They had a beautiful manufactured home put in and turned that ranch into a real working thing of beauty! It had several corals, a real pond you could swim in, and a beautiful barn with facilities to breed mules. Yes, they were real mule breeders! (interesting process I must say!) They got such a good reputation that the county would ask them to house abused horses they had confiscated from various abusers. At one time, they were housing about 60 horses. They nursed them all back to health and those horses were able to be put up for auction and found new homes!

We LOVED going to visit Aunt Darlene and Uncle Doug. Darlene was always so gracious saddling up a horse and trotting the kids around and teaching them some equine basics. She would let them ride around with her on the gator and help feed the horses.

Uncle Doug would let them drive the gator and a go-cart he had bought (I wonder how much fun he had on it) and drive our dirtbikes all around the property he worked so hard to maintain. (if any of you have had some real horse property, you know what a chore that is!) And he would fill the kids' heads full of all kind of fun stories and ideas I must say. We would laugh, cause a ruckus, eat good food and, at the end of the day, sit around the fire outside watching the tarantulas crawl around and maybe even brave picking one up!! It was a blast!!

Then, about a year before we moved out here, they found a 160 acre parcel of land (yes, I said one hundred and sixty!) in Pie Town, NM they fell in love with. Next thing we knew, they had sold their ranch and moved out to Pie town, to a trailer with a log home that had been started, and they were going to finish it.

And finish it they did! We got to visit this last Thanksgiving and it is beautiful! You can go back in my blog records to see the specs. I have to say, they outdid themselves this time! It is really a beautiful ranch in every sense of the word! We had a blast! They have always been so kind and gracious and hospitable to us in every way. They have their own fan club, all 5 of them, right here!!

At Thanksgiving, Darlene said she had been going to church. You know the church is everywhere if they even have a brach in Pie Town, NM population like 500!! Doug had even been going with her occasionally. Of course we were all so thrilled for Darlene! We had been praying she would join the church. Doug likes to get us all riled up on occasion about points of doctrine of the church. We would answer his question and kid him back. My sister-in-law Linda, and I, always felt he might join the church. Linda would always tease him that he was a "closet Mormon."

Needless to say, when Darlene called us in March and announced her intentions on getting baptized, we were thrilled! She hadn't set a date but was in the process of it all. In our home, we all started praying the spirit would touch Doug too!

In April, Darlene and Doug surprised us by dropping in on us at our new home to watch General Conference with us! We had such a great time listening to the words of the Prophet and the Apostles. They were both asking questions. It was so fun to see Darlene's countenance all lit up by the spirit! Doug's questions seemed to be a little more than idle curiousity.

So, when I read the announcement this morning of Darlene AND Doug's baptism this coming Saturday... I must say we weren't completely surprised but we are sure THRILLED beyond words! What wonderful blessing for our family and both of them!!

WE LOVE YOU DARLENE AND DOUG!!

More Memorial Day Fun, Part 2

2009-06-07T10:02:00.000-07:00

We partied all weekend for Memorial Day. Danny's brother Daren & his wife Nikole and Hayden, Kelsey & Haley all came Sunday night and slept over till Monday.

Of course there was more pool time... Although, there was a lot of air time...for everyone...

Even Hayley braved the air!

But I have to say, Tyson got the biggest air!
Kelsey decided later on to brave the pool.

Kierstin waiting for Kelsey and her friend Callie to come.

Brian & Haley lapping it up!

I had to get a sneak pic of Hayden.

(he's at that stage)

The brothers & Ty enjoying the spa.

Our friends, the Campbells joined us too. Of course I was bad with the pics and didn't get that or a pic of Nikole (sorry Nikole).

Mid Years resolution... take better pics!

We enjoyed ourselves with pool, games and the boys went to see Terminator (yuck) while the girls laughed it up at home with some fun games.

Great weekend!!

Memorial Day fun, part one

2009-06-07T09:39:00.000-07:00

We had a fabulously fun Memorial Day weekend all weekend Long! We started off Saturday having our dear friends the Ritters come over. We played in the pool....

We were so tickled that they brought our 2nd daughter along, Rene (Ne-Ne) Neish! I'm so bummed this is the only pic I got of the 2 of them, although, they were off in their own little world. They have been friends since they were 2, over 12 years now! I know they stay friends forever!!

(Love you Ne-Ne)

BBQd and then took a hike behind our house...

Grandma Nancy was brave and came along dad's more adventerous way which was rather steep and strewn with poison oak.

Danny made sure she made it down without incident.

Brian made it first with the boys. Of course they like to get the highest vantage point!

We more 'seasoned' kids, settle for a pic at the bottom. All of us together (including Tiki)
Nathan and Bradley opted to go to the bike jumps instead. I wish I would have got a better pic of just the 2 of them instead of the only one in the water.

Oh well, I'll make sure I get a better one next time. We had so much fun!! It was so nice to enjoy the company of our friends of over 10 years. We plan on doing it again soon!

We sure miss you Ritters!!!

Pinewood Derby 2009

2009-06-07T09:24:00.000-07:00

I think this is the first year in a number of years that Danny and I haven't had an actual part in the running of a Pinewood Derby. We even bought our own Pinewood Derby Track since our old ward in H.B. didn't have one and we were tired of borrowing one. We figured we'd be in Cubs for a long time and get plenty of use out of it.

Turns out in Murrieta, they have the Pinewood down to a science. The stake comes with their track (which looks just like ours but is metal) and runs the whole thing complete with the electronic finish (no more photo finishes)!

Here's Bryce's car on the track (the middle one). It looked like that in all the five heats he raced.

It may not have been the fastest this year but it certainly was the sleekest looking and he and dad had fun putting it together! We'll go out with a bang next year (it'll be Bryce's last!)

Teach them while they're young...

2009-05-30T20:52:00.000-07:00

By child #5, you know that you need to start young with good habits. Like when your 2 year old decides it will be funny to throw Kicks cereal all over the living room. You don't roll your eyes or scold and then pick it up yourself. OH NO!! I learned that a two year old is totally capable of choosing to help mommy pick up the cereal or sit in thinking time while mom does it so he knows it's unacceptable.

So I tell Tyson to help mommy pick up the mess and explain to him that it is a definate "no-no!" He looks at me for a minute, and marches off. I turn around to go march him over to help; lo and behold....

He discovered a more efficient way to clean up!! He had even turned on the vacuum and proceeded to suck up all the rest of the cereal; even the cereal that got stuck in the couch cushions.

We always hope are kids will be better and smarter than we are. Tyson's got it in the bag at 2!

Good times with forever friends

2009-05-30T17:40:00.000-07:00

They are the best of times, they are the worst of times....

I think these words ring true for the high school years; at least for my high school years. I was the typical know it all teenager, which ,of course, was when I was in the worse of times.

Of course, that was the time of the "me bubble", the term I've coined for that lovely time of life when the world is all about me, myself and moi. I've told my pre-teens, Kierstin and now Bradley, that when you turn that lovely age of 11ish that Satan wraps you in this "Me Bubble." Where the world is about "me" and how life is so unfair to "me" and why does everything happen to "me", etc. Your job is to burst out of it as soon as you can. That when you start looking outside the bubble and thinking more about others, etc., you will find you are happier and smarter for it. Of course, some are better at it than others.

I also found the dear prophet's counsel to be oh so true... Surround yourself with people with the same values and morals as you'd like to have and that's who you'll become and follow after... SURPRISE!! Oh so true.

All those awful moments I'd like to erase from my life's history happened when I was NOT hanging out with my Corona Stake buddies. When I was with them, life was good and fun. Those are the images I will conjure in my mind on a dull day to bring me something to smile about.

There were about 30 of us (give or take, depending on the weekend, etc) that would hang out on the weekends. There were dances, parties at Erin and Ross's house, tag in the orange grove, T.P.ing , ice blocking, firesides etc. Good, honest fun! I'm so grateful for this group of friends and for all the good times that I love to reminisce about. When a song from the radio will pop me back to all those dances ("I'd Stop the World" - Modern english, "Rock-Lobster" - B-52s, Oingo Boingo, New Order). I'll crank up the radio full tilt, roll down the windows and belt it out and my kids will sink down in their seats and wonder how they got stuck with a crazy mother.

Anyway, my dear friend Erin Staffanson (McGibbon now) just recently added to her family tree. An adoreable boy named Calan. Erin has lived in Utah for the past 12(?)years and I rarely get to see her. So when she said she'd be in the area a few of us met up Heather Fornter (Cecila), Melissa Taylor (Snow) and myself. (I've been so happy to reconnect with Heather since I've moved to Murrieta and it's a 10 minute drive to her house in Elsinore)! We ate and talked and looked at our kids and wondered where they came from. Weren't we 16 yesterday? My mind says yes, but my body says "NO!"

In any case, it was a wonderful afternoon. So fun to slip back into friendships like we've never seperated. LOVE YOU BEAUTIFUL LADIES!!! Hope to get Shannon & Rebecca out with us next time and whoever else is close enough to us!!! Hope my kids find good friends like these to pass their adolescent years through with.

2009-05-26T22:33:00.000-07:00

Last Monday there was a knock at the door.

I was greeted by this.......... Absolutely stunning!

No, you didn't miss my birthday, wedding anniversary or any other special occasion...

All because he loves me!

Out of this world Date night

2009-05-26T22:01:00.000-07:00

All those who know Danny know what a huge Trekkie he is. So needless to say he was more than excited for this new movie to come out. I actually thought it looked fun too. That's saying a lot since...
#1: I've been SUPER selective about what movie I'll see. I don't want to waste my time or money when we can just see it on video ..
#2: Let's face it; many of the Star Trek movies seriously should have just been a T.V. episode at best.

But I thought this one looked good enough to go see judging by the preview... and I'm a pretty good judge of previews.

However, Bradley was super excited to go have a date night with dad so they went and saw the sneak peak on Thursday, May 7 at 7:00 (they actually didn't even have to wait till midnight.)

The report was glowing! Danny couldn't wait to see it again.

So see it again he did, with me.

It was so fun to go out with him AND the movie exceeded my expectations. The cast they chose was so great, so like the original characters, especially Spock. I thought they came up with a real clever story line how to set up a whole new set of movies or a TV series without upsetting the die hard Trekkie fans who loved the originals.

Fun night with my honey!!

It's HOT, but we're not!

2009-05-20T16:43:00.000-07:00

Summer is already here in Murrieta. It has been for about the past month. Many days have hit over 80 aleady. At first, you had to really brave the pool. Now, it's at the almost refreshing stage. The kids are really making good use of the reason we bought this house. Here are some pics of their enjoyment with the Campbells..

Bathing Beauties; Callie & KierstinIn beautiful form....

Sorry ladies, this one gets a 6.5, guess you'll have to work on it this summer!!
Pool Studs, Bradley & Connor

The fish... Ethan & Bryce

The guppies; Brian & Hannah

Looking forward to way more swimming fun!!

My New Gym!

2009-05-20T09:30:00.000-07:00

When we moved, I was sad to discover that my gym, 24 hour fitness, is not conveniently located! It is hard to find time to drive the 15 minutes to get there. I know that sounds crazy but really, it takes 15 min to get there but by the time I get out of the car and get started it's like 20 minutes. that's 40 min. in travel - set-up time, wasted. It's a big deal in my schedule. I don't feel I have time to waste right now.

Fortunately, I have found a FAB gym with a great workout in my own backyard, literally! Best part, it's family friendly. The kids and I (minus Brad but plus Bryce's friend Hunter Patton) did a workout during spring break.

First, you do the the "stair master workout" by climbing this reasonably steep hill."
Some nice treadmill action, run or walk it. Best part, it's pet friendly too!
Nice anarobic workout too if you choose!
Seriously, this is all 10 minutes away from my house. You don't even know you're anywhere close to civilization. Bryce, especially, loves to hike and explore and is constantly taking me for a hike. So great and therapeutic! These are supposed to be holes the Indians ground into these rocks when grinding corn and flour.

Tyson loves coming along too. He reminds me I need to slow down to stop and smell the flowers every now and then!

Complete with a little creek. What more could we ask for if not the beach?We're enjoying it!

Come visit us! We'll take you to see for yourselves!

Tribute to the ga-ga begone experts... Mary & Patty!

2009-05-06T19:17:00.000-07:00

Danny, Kierstin and I got to participate in a pioneer trek 2 weeks ago during the end of spring break (post to come). While we were gone, we entrusted the care of our precious boys to Aunt Mary & Aunt Patty. I think we were more worried about the toll it would take on them rather than how the boys would do. The boys adore them in every sense of the word. I always tell them they have their own fan club.

Of course we came home and everybody was healthy and happy and sad to see Mary and Patty leave.

Little did Mary know that when she left she took something with her she didn't know was along for the ride.

Mary had told me that Tyson had only had 1 ga-ga (bottle) during the whole time we were gone and that was because he caught her with it. That was for 2 days! Not only that but the little stinker didn't pitch a fit in the middle of the night like he has been 3 times a night for the last year of his life. Danny just looked at me and said "I told you it wasn't his reflux!"

In any case, I'm a seasoned 5 kid mom; I know the golden opportunity when I see it. No need for ga-ga when mom is gone, don't need it when she's here. Ga-ga begone!!

So when Tyson asked for it after Mary left that night, I patiently explained to him that Aunt Mary took his ga-gas to the babies because he is a big boy now! He looked at me with this look:

on his face and said "oh" as I handed him his "fun froggy" cup. So every time he has asked for it, I explain to him that Mary took them.

He still asks for it once a day, even today. But he doesn't get upset or pitch a fit. He just says "oh" and accepts his froggy or airplane cup cuz "he's a big boy, not a baby!"

Brian asked me today if Mary really had taken the "ga-gas."....

Confession; no, Mary did not take his ga-gas to the babies she works with because I didn't think of it in time.

Rationalization: But, Mary did tell him he is a big boy and she has ga-gas she gives to babies at her work.

In any event, he is ga-ga free!! Not a tear shed. I think he really understands the baby thing cuz he has had a chance to be around Matthew Campbell and seen him drinking a ga-ga. We had talked about how babies need ga-gas but he was a big boy! I'm glad we had done that prelude.

Sleeping through the night, well, I can always dream about it. But we are on a good track. There may be a light at the end of the tunnel!

Mary & Patty, YOU ROCK!!

Love,

Your Fan club!

"As for me... I'll follow the Prophet."

2009-04-30T20:24:00.000-07:00

Conversation with Brian on the way home from gymnastics.

Brian: "The other guy in my class is an only child. He says his mom and dad let him do
whatever he wants."

mom: "Really? That sounds fun, huh?"

Brian: "(sighs) Yeah, it sounds fun but I know it's not really. If that were to happen to me,
and you let me do whatever I wanted, I know I'd just have to listen to the
prophet, Thomas Monson, very carefully!"

Yeah Brian!!

New Menu item at Casa de la Baak!

2009-04-29T21:04:00.000-07:00

I'm sure I have expressed the bane of my job... cooking.

However, I do try my very best to make sure that I make a nice, nutritious, homemade meal and even make breakfasts in the mornings. (we have cereal once a week).

However, I do feel like I get stuck in a rut. I hear a lot of "this, again." With a family of 7, it's hard to please everyone. There's nothing more irksome to me than to hear someone complain after I've spent a lot of time and energy doing something I do not really enjoy. So I tend to stick to the tried and true menus that get the least amount of groans.

I really would like to branch out and try something else, honestly. However, it has to be worth the grunts and groans and has to be something that I feel will live past the 'after it's been placed in front of them 10 times, they'll eventually eat it' (which I have found to be true.)

So, Sunday night, I tried something new....

and yes, I got the "what's that!" "What exactly is in this? Or my favorites, "YUCK!" & "I hate this." (even though I've never made it before.

So we suffered through the 1st time dinner jitters and no one died, vomited or even gagged. It all made it down. Although there was alotta the 1st time comments floating around the table.

Finally, Danny looks at me and says "I see why you rarely make something new!"

Understanding at last!!

Our new dinner:

Chicken foil dinners

On a square of aluminum foil:

(make 1 per person)

Spread a spoonful of your fav. bbq sauce

2-3 small red potatoes, thinly sliced

a few green/red peppers

a few slices of onion

a 1/2 a chicken breast

salt and pepper

another spoonful of BBQ sauce

fold in the aluminum foil. Bake at 375 for 35. Open foil and add a sprinkling of cheddar (or your fav.) cheese. Bake additional 5 minutes. Probably would make a good camping foil dinner.

Easter 2009

2009-04-28T21:42:00.000-07:00

Although I am tardy in my Easter post AND I regret to say I did not document it with hardly any pics, we did have a lovely 1st Easter out here in Murrieta.

We colored eggs, although in shifts. Bryce, Brian & Kierstin did theirs first (I did not get a pic of Kierst & Bryce, sorry guys). But she did do 1 token egg so as not to break with tradition; THANKS KIERST!!

But here are Brian's creations:

And I have a confession to make... Bradley and Tyson actually colored their eggs the day after Easter. Bradley wasn't in the mood when everyone else did theirs and Tyson was asleep. I saved everything though since it was Tyson's 1st real egg decorating and he would never know (except for someday when he grows up and reads this post of course)

I'm glad Bradley decided to participate since it is a tradition and that's hard for moms to let go of.

Tyson really got into it:

Although I have no idea how it ended up on his toes.......

I didn't see any toe prints on his eggs..

They all made for a pretty table centerpiece for the rest of the week with these lovely tulips my sister Mary gave me:

Tyson was the first one to wake up and find easter eggs filled with "treasure" hidden around the house. He had so much fun discovering where they were and what was inside them:

The Easter bunny was generous to all:

We had a lovely dinner with Danny's brother Daren and his wife Nikole and kids. My grandma Mary Kay and Aunt Jayna and her son Brian came along with Mary, Patty & Ann.

Since it was Daren's birthday later that week we sang happy birthday to him.

(We won't mention his over 4 decades of life!)

We were blessed to be surrounded by people we love on one of the most sacred holidays. We were able to sit around that night and discuss the true meaning of Easter to end on a spiritual note. It was a nice day.

Tyson's haircut!

2009-04-27T22:29:00.000-07:00

There is nothing "little" about the attitude of our littlest child!! He has a HUGE opinion about everything. Heavenly Father decided Danny and I need to be kept very active in our old age. I have to pick and choose my battles very carefully with this one or we will be battling constantly!! (Fortunately I started out this way so I have become very adept at this.) So, admitedly, that is why you will often see our little Tyson running around in only a diaper and maybe a shirt on a good day. Pants and especially shoes are for special occassions like church and the park.

That being said, can you tell how he feels about haircuts? Yes, pretty shaggy.

The best hairstylist for 1st haircuts and those who hate haircuts is Karen at Rainbow kids on Hamilton/Magnolia in Huntington Beach! I have tried on 2 seperate occasions to get his haircut out here in Murrieta, no good.

She has done all of the 1st haircuts on my boys and into their 2nd years. She's fast and good. So, when I had to pick up Kierstin in H.B., I scheduled an apt. and ....

voila!!

I thought he might be better this time, WRONG! We got about 5 minutes, me holding him squirming all the while. If you'd had seen him, you'd really be impressed. I wish I'd have got her picture!!

Thank you Karen, at least I can see his eyes now!

Dan the Handy Man provides a peace of mind!

2009-04-27T22:14:00.000-07:00

I mentioned before that the reason we purchased this specific home was because we loved the yard. You know we like to be outside when you consider that the big reason we purchased our H.B. house was because of the yard.

This house, like the last, is a work in progress. Not as much so as the first, but we are still living with our stuff in disaray (no floors in the upstairs bedrooms, hence we are on matresses in the living room, bonus room, etc.

Danny is busy putting this house together for us. The list of projects is still long and we have to really pick and prioritize what's at the top.

If you look in the positng if our jacuzzi initiation you will see something missing. Yes, we had been living with no fence around the pool the first 2 weeks of our life here. Needless to say, I have been somewhat frazzled always wondering where Tyson is at.

This weekend, Danny installed a beautiful wrought iron gate around the pool while I was in H.B. picking Kierstin up from spending time with friends. Danny had never installed fencing like this before. But he studied it, decided he could do it and when I got home this is what I found...

It is absolutely beautiful and such a relief! Danny really is amazing at what he can do! He never ceases to amaze me. He saved us at least $700 doing this himself and it looks professionally done!

Cost to install wrought iron gate: $600 in materials. Peace of mind it brings.... PRICELESS!!
Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU! From me and Tyson!!

Health Report

2009-04-22T22:41:00.000-07:00

The real purpose of this blog is to keep a journal of our family happenings. This one is probably just going to be interesting to the kids later on. I know my family sits around pulling out the biggest boo-boo awards so I thought I would document what's been going on around here, since it's been the biggest boo-boo year thus far (and hopefully for the future).

We have always been really fortunate to enjoy good health in our family. Kierstin was the only one to have had an x- ray, when she was 3 to see if her wrist was dislocated, and 3 stitches when she dropped a bowl on her foot leaving a small cut. I can count on one hand how many times we have the stomach flu.

I try my best to never take health for granted. I understand how many people out there suffer from all types of ailments all the time.

Since we have moved to Murrieta, I have been made sure to really understand the great blessing of health and strength as we have been to the doctor more than I can ever remember! And now, Bradley, Bryce and Brian have all had their own sets of x-rays!

Bryce had chronic stomach pain all during the first part of the year. He has been absent from school about 12 times! Before this, the last time he had been to the doctor was in November of '06 for an ear infection! (He had chronic ones when he was an infant). After stomach x-rays, blood tests and stool & urine samples (yuck!) the doctor ruled out everything and chocked it up to anxiety, which a lot of kids have manifested as stomach problems at this age (Kierstin did). It's understandable but I don't regret running all the tests. It's very disconerting to have to push your kid out the door to school crying his stomach hurts when you believe it's anxiety but aren't sure. Now I can push him out the door with confidence.

In November, Bradley was running the track at school and twisted his foot; the first week of basketball of course. He stayed off it on crutches for 2 weeks. When I noticed him still limping at practice a month later I figured I'd better take him in. An x-ray and a trip to the specialist revealed that he has an xtra bone in the arch of his foot. I guess this is not uncommon. The doc. said that an injury can set off the fact it's there and cause noticeable discomfort. We could do an elective surgery to file down the bone. It's all a matter of how much he can tolerate it. I think we're going to hold off on that.

Kierstin and Bradley have both had a really hard time with their allergies out here, especially Bradley. I have had them on every over the counter type allergy medicine with minimal success. Bradley had a sinus infection a few months ago. The doctor had put him on what I thought, was a rather strong medine regime; nasal spray, antibiotic and a prescription strength allergy tablet. It seemed to clear it up for a while.

However, the day before Danny and I were supposed to leave on the trek, he really got congested. The morning of, I could tell he was miserable but what was I to do? I filled him full of allergy medicine and told him to rest. My friend, Cynthia Campbell, who was watching Bryce and Brian that day, said she would call to check in on him. Danny and I were supposed to bring our phones so I was able to periodically call him during the day. He sounded and felt awful! I was so upset to be so far away. Fortunately, my saintly friend Cynthia, took him to the doctor for me (MANY THANKS CYNTHIA!!!) Yes, he had a sinus infection. Antibiotic and Afrin nasal spray. When Danny and I got home Sunday, he still was not feeling great. So I took him to the doc on Monday. She couldn't believe he wasn't better. She sent him for a sinus xray and told him he'd have to do another course of antibiotics, Zyrtec-D in the morning, a spray of Nasonex, a Singular in the afternoon and a Zyrtec -D in the evening!! I am not big on medicine so this makes me nervous. But the doctor was firm so we're trying it out. He's back to school today. We'll see how it goes.

I feel so bad since he gets it from my side of the family; we all have allergies of some sort. It is miserable!! In fact, Kierstin had a severe allergy attack on the Trek! I wish they would have got Danny's ironclad sinuses. Seriously, since we've been married he's had 1 minor headcold. He dosn't know what congestion means, lucky him. Unfortuantely, I think most all the kids have my inferior sinuses (so sorry guys!) Hopefully it will clear up and we won't have to take a trip to the allergist~ stay tuned.

Brian - I took him and some friends to the park for a playdate. There are some sloping hills up behind the park with lots of bushes. The sign says "Stay off the slopes" but of course it is too tempting for curious young boy minds. A young head can often be seen bobbing up and down behind the bushes. It's so hard to be the tough law abiding mom all the time. Yes, I paid for it. I did allow Brian and his friend back there. Brian comes crying down the slope with a bloody leg. He had scratched it against some bush or something. One part looked like he had a tiny bit of twig impaled in it.

Playdate over of course. I admit it I was relieved that it didn't happen to his friend but it was also one of those knock you head against the wall, "why didn't I listen to that little voice in my head; I'm a bad mom," moments.

I had just talked to a couple of friends within the last month who had talked about these nasty staph infections a family member had received recently. One from scraping a hand on a nail (he almost lost his whole arm!) and the other a scratch from a rose bush!! So with visions of my poor son's leg all swollen and infected I vigilently poured hydrogen porixide all over it and smothered it in neosporin for 10 days. 2 weeks later, it had all cleared up except that one spot. It was swollen and bulging and it looked like something had festered to the top. I carefully dug off the top layer which oozed pus and hoped I got it all. A week later it still looked red and swollen. Trying not to panic I made a doc. apt. She prescribed a topical and oral antibiotic and a referall to a surgeon (she thought it looked like something was stuck in there). He sent us for xrays. Another office visit yesterday revealed it would probably be o.k. but to keep an eye on it the next month.

These are all fairly minor things but they do make me so very grateful first and foremost for health and strength. What a MAJOR blessing. Secondly, I am so grateful that after a year with no health insurance, we finally found some just before all this happened. Blessings, upon blessings. MUCH gratitude to my father in Heaven!!

When I have grown a foot or two...(?!)

2009-04-22T22:13:00.000-07:00

I ran across this pic looking through some albums and forgot to blog it.

About every other day, Bradley runs up next to me and asks Danny "I'm taller than mom now, right?" And FORTUNATELY, Danny will chuckle and say, "you still got an inch or two Brad!" Then I turn to him and remind him that I am still in charge, even when he is taller! I will always be mom no matter how far up I have to look at my son!

And sadly, I have to admit, that is NOT going to be at 16 like my dillusional self thought when my sweet, happy, dimpled Bradley was born. He is, not quite 12 and OFF THE CHARTS for height!

I have to constantly remind myself, that he is not as old as he looks. He is still just an 11 year old boy in that 14 year old body (thank goodness).

You know how the song goes, "I hope they call me on a mission, when I have grown a foot or two." Well, I have to say, Bradley has not got the or 2 part before he outgrows us all. Is this really my sweet "little" dimpled, good natured boy? Yes, he is still inside that GROWING body.

I am relieved to say that he is still NOT embarrassed to give his mom a hug and a kiss before school.

Well, a mission is 7 years down the line but I know how quickly it is going to fly by. About 14 years ago I was sitting teary eyed and choked up in the H.B. 4th ward during the Draeger boys' missionary farewell. I think I was pregnant with Kierstin. Danny looks over at me and asks what's wrong. I turn to him and tell him I was just thinking about when our boys would go on a mission. His reply "we don't even have any sons yet!" .....

Here we are, 4 boys later. His life with us is half over. He is going to turn 12 in 3 short months. Have I taught him everything he needs to know? Does he really realize how special that is? He's getting close to that "finding process" of his life (finding a testimony for himself) Danny and I certainly encourage the kids constantly to find a testimony that what we are teaching them about the gospel is true for themselves. Will he do it? Have I helped plant some sturdy roots to support his testimony on its own? It's hard to let go and find out. Fortunately, I still have prayer and the knowlege that he has another set of parents who love him as much (and yet more!) than I and will make up for what I have neglected. That is a great comfort.

Life certainly flies by. Has anyone found the recipe for slowing it down yet?

Tuesday's Spring Break Fun

2009-04-14T10:21:00.000-07:00

I always try to plan something fun for our breaks. I LOVE museums and try to share that experience with the kids. I had been planning on heading down to San Deigo to check out the Natural History museum with the kids. They have like 10 museums all close together at Balboa park. I had always wanted to take the kids there but it was a long drive, 1 1/2 hours, from H.B. and hadn't ever got around to it. Now we live about 50 min. so I thought I'd try it.

I hadn't really planned on going Tuesday but I checked my emails in the morning and found one from a friend that said that Tuesday was kids free day for the Natural History museum. So I thought that would be great. I packed up the kids ( and a MUCH protesting Bradley) and headed down south.

I was almost discouraged when we got there. I expected it to be crowded but it was INSANE! We drove around for 20 minutes trying to find a parking space by the Natural History museum to no avail. Plus the line was almost around the building to get in. I drove around the other museums and although there weren't lines around them I could not find a parking space. I haven't even been to a crowded day at Disneyland with such NO luck on a parking space.

My heart sunk because we had driven so far and Bradley had really not wanted to come; one reason being he gets car sick. But I was determined to have a cheerful attitude and prevail. So, I took the boys to good old McDonald's and we ate lunch and went back to try again. After driving around for 30 minutes (no exaggeration) we found a lady heading to her car. She was so kind as to notice and point us in the direction of her car to make sure we got her spot (thank you good neighbor!) Fortunately, she had an expedition and so my big van fit in with little problem!

I decided to not attempt the History Museum, bite the bullet and just pay to go to another museum. The boys choice the air and space museum (of course). Tyson enjoyed it as soon as he got out of the car. It was right in the flight path of the planes landing at the San Deigo airport.

The boys all LOVE planes and we had a blast checking them all out:

Look at the smiles on those faces!

Tyson trying his hand at being a pilot. It was a little chamber filled with air and you have to use the stick to keep the plane centered. He was a natural!

Bradley paid $3 to take pilot lessons. This is an actual simulator pilots start on and he's sitting next to an instructor. I sometimes wonder how far he and Tyson will make it in the sky. They have always enjoyed planes and helicopters.

We left at 2:30, to miss traffic and we did miss it! Smooth sailing all the way home. The best part... we all left with smiling faces and more fun memories to add to our collection. But the best part for me was to hear my pre-teen, previously cranky son, say "Thanks mom. I'm sorry I was grumpy this morning. It was worth it!" That, made it all worth it to me!

Lesson learned for mom, you CAN make lemonade out of lemons and ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING!

FHE - Jacuzzi Initiation & poor man's donuts

2009-04-14T10:00:00.000-07:00

Last Monday, April 6, we had a fun FHE to start off our 2 WEEK spring break fun.

(yes, we get 2 weeks of break here in Murrieta.)

Dad got home from work and pumped up the jacuzzi and we all popped in. You'll have to take my word for it that Danny and I hopped in too since there is no photo evidence.

It was a beautiful evening out and we realized just how glad we were we bought this house for its location. It was so relaxing sitting out in nature, literally. This is our view as the sun was retiring for the day below the hills. It's about this time that the frog ensemble starts in. It's so funny cuz you don't really hear any frogs, just cicadas and criquets. Then, all of the sudden, one frog will call out and the rest answer, all into the night! I wonder if it's the king frog or if one just can't take being quiet any more. There is a small stream behind us that harbor all our amphibous, melodious neighbors.

The boys even earned a bit of extra cash on a dare. Although the jacuzzi was heated, the pool hasn't been. Needless to say, it is NOT warm in the slightest. So we dared Bradley to jump in the pool and back into the jacuzzi. He wasn't so hip until visions of $1 loomed before his eyes. He reasoned that was really a quick way to make a buck! Then Bryce decided he couldn't let Bradley rake in all the dough and took the plunge. Of course, Brian was right behind him. Fortunately, Tyson dosn't get the whole meaning of $$ and we didn't have to pluck him out of the feezing water. Dad, however, took a plunge, acutally did a 2 laps! (can't have his boys showing him up!) All for love and not to lose his manly title of Dad, the King! To which Bradley matched by swimming across the deep end. Mom turned out to be the only chicken. Kierstin got a "bye" as dad had dropped her off in H.B. in the morning to spend a few days with her friend Natalie. It really was refreshing and fun!

Afterwards, we made what I call "poor man's doughnuts." We used to make them as a kid and I resurrected them a few years ago. They are lower in fat too. I use the cheap refrigerated biscuits with no hydrogenated oil. You pop a hole in the middle (or shape them how you like) and fry them in some healthier, canola oil. Just a minute or two on each side until they're golden brown.

Then you pop them in a brown bag filled with cinnamon sugar, brown sugar or powdered sugar. Shake and....... Enjoy! And truly, it was an enjoyable evening! Although we missed our Kierstin. I wonder if she would havebeen chicken too?

Easter Gratitude!

2009-04-13T10:27:00.000-07:00

Our family was able to watch General Conference this past weekend. I look so forward to this time of year. I especially love the April session as it is so close to Easter time.

As always, I felt so many promptings on how to improve my life this conference time and learned so much from so many of the general authorities. But I was especially moved by the Apostle, Jeffery Holland's talk on the Savior. I cannot even think about it withough getting emotional. He really painted a more vivid detailed description of the events of Jesus' life than I have ever felt before. I cannot express it. I have always felt a gratitude for my Savior but it is so much more poingnant now. Truly, this is modern day apostle of the Lord speaking

Take a moment to watch this excerpt the church put out with his talk. It is truly moving and expresses all Easter sentiments better than I can ever express.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EpFhS0dAduc

I am so profoundly GRATEFUL for all of the bounteous blessings the Lord has bestowed upon me. I feel so overwhelmed and unworthy. May I live up to the expectations of the Lord and make sure that I am not a contributor to the Lord feeling like he has to walk alone again as Elder Holland expresses.

Many blessings and happiness to you and your family.

They just Don't Make Them Like They Used To

2009-04-10T19:39:00.001-07:00

I mean Diapers of all things!!

It's true. I have had 5 kids since 1994. Things are supposed to improve over the course of time; and things have. We have nice small little IPODS with personalized music, DVDs instead of VHS, faster computer times.

Baby items have even improved since my last 2 kids. Better high chairs, video monitors, more of selection in everything...

But diapers have taken a dump! I have used pampers, and then Luvs on all of my kids (Huggies were smelly and seemed to give my kids diaper rash). I could accidently go for 1/2 a day forgetting to change a wet diaper and no problem except the saggy baggy look. NOW however, if I haven't changed a diaper in the last 2 hours, I KNOW! I go to pick up Tyson and it leaks right through the diaper itself! Not out of the side stuff either. I even have to change his diaper once in the middle of the night or he will wake up to wet bedsheets, YUCK! I have NEVER had to change so many clothes and wash so many sheets/blankets! UGH!

I have tried EVERY different brand out there. My LUVS failed me, all store brands, even Pampers. I was willing to spend the extra $$ on the Supremes and Ultras but to no avail. I finally resorted to the dreaded HUGGIES which for me haven't worked with my kids. No, not any better AND yes, diaper rash! What is it about Baaks and Huggies that don't mix. So, back to the least offenders, Pampers Supreme.

So what is it? I think it has to do with those lovely little silicone bubbles that used to be in the diapers, remember those? Or rather, the lack of them. I heard someone say they took them out so diapers would degrade better in the landfills. They do feel a lot thinner and boy do they work like they're thinner. I'm all for going Green but seriously, can't they make them any better than this? Or is it all a diaper company scam? Really, sometimes I wonder. I have to buy 1/3 more diapers than I used to.

All I know is I am so glad to be almost done with the diaper stage forever... HOORAY! To all you my dear friends, who have many more diaper days to go..... have you ever heard of plastic pants? Good luck! I just hope they figure it out before I'm a grandma.

Tyson turns 2 on March 11, 2009!

2009-04-08T11:46:00.000-07:00

In the midst of moving preperations, Tyson hit his 2nd year milestone!

I know 2 has been termed "the terrible twos," but personally, I love hitting that 2nd year milestone. Not to say that my kids don't go through the typical stubborn, pitch fitting, throw yourself on the floor tantrums, boy do they; but it is such a relief to me. Yes, I love my babies but I do not like the lack of communication. That when they hurt or are upset I somtimes do not know what is wrong.

I love how inquisitive two is. Everything is fresh and new. The littlest things are so exciting and fun! They can really start understanding the workings of the world. At two they can at least start to communicate, even if they aren't necessarily talking (which Tyson isn't!).

We didn't have a big party with friends and everything but we made sure he knew it was a special day.

In our home, we start birthdays off with the favorite birthday breakfast with a wish warmer upper (1 candle to kind of practice on). Tyson knew just what to do with that candle atop his chocolate chip pancake (see the smoke?).

We sang happy birthday to him at every point during the day. I took him to one of his favorite places, the park (sorry, no pic) and pushed him on the swing for 35 minutes straight!

He opened presents; he knew just how to do it:

This one was a hit; a geo track airplane set. It has a remote he can work all by himself. A green button for go and red for stop..

He loved being in charge and played it until late (can you see the bleary eyes?).

Gma Nancy sent some new books for us to enjoy.

We should have opened this one last... Yes, he is bleary eyed and teary eyed. It was late and I didn't really want to do a bubble bath but...
It was his birthday, how could I spoil an otherwise fun day?

Of course there was cake and ice cream. Being child #5, mom now understands that bigger and fancier is lost on a 2 year old. Just a basic chocolate cake topped with his favorite characters, Winnie the Pooh and friends (actually, 2nd fav. Max and Ruby is #1 but I can't find any little characters).

He looked happy with the "pooh guys" as Kierstin used to always call them.

And of course, his 2 year old wish is going to come true. Candles out in one blow!

We love our little Tyson and are so gald he is a member of our family. Just a few fun facts about Tyson at 2:

Favorites: -Max and Ruby and MORE Max and Ruby, Winnie the Pooh and Little Einstein

-LOVES swinging on the swing at the park

-likes bubble baths and water in general. He unfortuantely, has no fear of even

the waves at the beach and will get back up and head straight in even when

knocked down!

-Loves being outside.

-LOVES riding with dad on the dirtbike, loves airplanes, motorcylces

Tyson quirks -Takes after Kierstin; hates his carseat, stroller, crib, etc.

-Takes after Bradley; into everything! Likes to search and destroy

-Takes after Bryce, won't talk, uses his own vocabulary! Very few words;

mam! (mom), dad, yeah, Bra-Bra (Bradley), Brai - Brian,

ga-ga - bottle, eda - motorcyle, heco -helicopter, a-pane (airplane)

dis? -what's this? does use voice inflections so you can kinda get the gist of

what he's saying!

-Takes after Brian; can pitch an AMAZING fit. Throws himself down in an all

out fit!

Tyson is an independant little soul. Already wants to do everything on his own. Already determined to keep up with his 3 older bros. He is going to keep our family active and on-the-go, that's for sure. We are blessed to have him in our family!

Welcome to our Home in Murrieta!

2009-04-08T09:21:00.000-07:00

It's been a while since I've posted, I know. I beg off to the excuse that we have been in the midst of moving! We purchased a house here in Murrieta. It's only 2 miles from the house we were renting but puts us in a different ward than the one we were in. It actually gives us more to consider, being a member of the church and purchasing a home. We thought and prayed long and hard about whether or not we should stay in our current ward. However, living in the ward with the smallest geographical boundaries in the church (6 square miles) made it difficult. That with the fact that 1/4 of our ward is a 55 and older community and another 1/3 of our ward is out of the school boundaries for the high school and junior high we wanted Kierstin and Bradley to stay in AND finding a house with a big enough yard and pool proved to be too much. So after careful consideration we moved out of the California Oaks ward and into the Murrieta ward, which many call the Murrieta stake cuz it is so big! I had actually went to a young women training meeting and remember talking to the YW president there. She said they had 56 YW on their roles! I remember thinking I'm glad we're not in that ward, yet, here we are.

We are thankful to our CAL OAKS friends who made us feel so welcome and needed right off the bat. It made our transition so much easier. Special thanks to our friends the Campbells, who lived right up the street from us and made us feel right at home. We will miss the convenience of just going up the hill to play but know we will still keep in touch.

In any case, here is our new home in Murrieta:

See that little room with the window in front? One of my favorite features. It is actually is a single car detached garage... finally a home for all of Danny's tools and toys!! Yeah!

t sits at the end of a quiet neighborhood at the end of a cul de sac (we love that!). But this is the big reason we bought this house:

A beautiful back yard with a pool that backs up to, what I call, the wilderness! No backyard neighbors, just the hills and the wildlife; hawks, lizards, squirrels, gophers, hummingbirds, cyotes and even rattlesnakes I here (yes, it makes this mom nervous a bit). The boys have already been hiking with dad and had their own adventures back there. We look forward to many to come.

It's an older home for out here (built in 2001) and smaller (only 2850 sq. feet). Like I said, it was the yard that sold us. It has a firepit and a large side yard for a play structure and trampoline to come. (pictures to come). However, the inside has needed some TLC. Danny, once again, has been put hard to work fixing it up to our expectations. We ripped out all the moldings and put in new. Danny has fixed up the huge walk in pantry and we had to strip all the upstairs carpet. We started The previous owners had cats that just destroyed the carpet and also a son that just destroyed the upstairs bedroom. Holes in every wall and I mean huge ones! (should have taken pics). With trying to move out of the old house and clean and touch up paint it (white flat, UNWASHABLE paint and 5 kids do NOT mix!) and earn an income has been a strain. I so appreciate all his hard work and efforts to make the interior of this home has inviting as the yard.

We are kinda camping out right now as the upstairs bedrooms don't have any flooring yet. WE wanted to put wood and laminate in the bedrooms in hopes that it helps the kids' allergies. But of course, the flooring we wanted, that was within our budget, was on back order. So when we have that all done and things are settled, we'll post more pics and have you all out for a housewarming party for ourselves!

Prayers for Calam!

2009-04-07T22:57:00.001-07:00

I believe with all my soul in the power of prayer. In fact, I believe that when I reach the next life I will still be surprised of the full power of prayer. I have seen miracles happen in my life because I have had the great gift to beseech my Father in Heaven through the wonderous workings of prayer.

So I am asking you, my friends who read this, to pray for my friend Erin McGibbon and her husband Patrick's newly adopted baby Calam. They have been waiting for this new addition to their family for such a long time. They were finally able to meet him and bring him home just yesterday. this morning, he woke with a 101 fever, which is always disconcerting to say the least with a newborn. Please pray for baby Calam and the doctors who are over his care!

Many thanks!

Rebecca

Words Cannot Express...

2009-04-07T22:42:00.000-07:00

Lately, I am really truly coming to the realization of the truthfulness of the phrase, "words cannot express...."

Life is truly a whirlwind of emotions; you can be soaring high one moment, and spiraling low the next and then back up. There is such a range of emotions. For instance, how can the same word happy apply to all those different range of emotions from just simply having a good day, to finding your soulmate, to your wedding day, the birth of your children, watching your children grow to finding contentment in older years.... It just does not seem adequate for all those occasions. Nor does attaching various adverbs such as very, so much, a lot, etc.

I guess that is why it the next phrase "actions speak louder than words." really hits home lately as well too. We read so much more into a person's actions than words.

So when "I say I have learned to be so very grateful for the very bounteous goodness of my Heavenly Father lately; for his infinite patience and consideration for me and all the little things in my life." Let's just say, words cannot quite adequately express just how much gratitude is within my heart.

I think all of this stems from watching General Conference this weekend. The prophet and general authoritie's words just seemed to so hit home with me. I especially loved Elder Holland's remarks on the sufferings of the Savior and that he went through it all for us; for me! It just touched me in a way words cannot express.

I am so grateful to my Heavenly Father and for all of his bounteous blessings and especially the great gift from our elder brother, Jesus Christ. Just how wonderous a gift it truly was stirs my soul more and more.

If you did not get a chance to view conference you can find the link here: http://www.lds.org/conference/languages/0,6353,310-1,00.html

See if you are not touched as well!

Crazy Hair Day!

2009-03-06T22:20:00.000-08:00

Bryce and Brian had crazy hair day at school this last week. Here's Bryce.. I think his is more cute than crazy but this is as crazy as he wanted to go...

Brian wanted a wave....

I think the end result made him look like he belonged in the pages of Whoville.. What do you think?

Way to Go Bryce!!

2009-03-06T22:02:00.000-08:00

Danny and I have been serving in the Cub Scout program since before we had any boys, for the last 14 years. Danny has been varsity coach for 3 years, scout master for 4 years and Cubmaster for the last 6 (he got called to be assist. cub master in our new ward).

We LOVE the scouting program. It has something in it for everyone. It teaches you life skills, how to be a good citizen and member of your community and most importantly teaches boys to have a sense of duty to God. I have heard many a general authority talk about how it truly is a God inspired program. Danny and I feel privileged to be a part of it, especially now we have 4 boys going through the program.

Bradley earned his Arrow of light last summer and is now on his way to becoming 1st class as a boy scout.

A couple of Tuesdays ago, at the Blue and Gold Dinner, Bryce received his Wolf Badge, 1 gold arrow point and 2 silver. He really enjoys Cub Scouts and was so excited. We're excited for you Bryce and will enjoy watching you move along your trail to arrow of light and eventually eagle!

Keep up the good work our little Wolf man!

2009-03-06T21:54:00.000-08:00

If there's one thing Danny and I want to stress to our kids at this moment is how important it is to do well in school.
We tell them it's important because...
#1: Heavenly Father sent us on this earth to learn, that's what life IS all about
#2: You CAN take what you learn with you (and we'll use it to some degree).
#3: If you do well in your education now it can give you more options as to how you
can earn a living when you're older.
#4: It teaches you good work habits for when you really have a job and need
to support yourself.

Danny and I feel so blessed that the kids really, of their own accord, strive to do well in school. They may not like it but they try their best.

Kierstin has attained a 4.0 GPA her whole 1st year of high school and that's taking ADVANCED english, math and science. She was one of only 58 freshman (out of like 1000) to have maintaned a 4.0 this whole year thus far. She works really hard and won't even miss school in fear of lowering her grade. She has her eye set on attending BYU.
(Unfortunately, I don't have a pic)
Bradley just had an award assembly and was honored for maintaining a higher than 3.0 GPA for the whole year.

Bryce and Brian have recently achieved awards at school as well.

WE ARE SO PLEASED WITH YOUR PROGRESS KIDS!!! We pray you keep it up!

2009-03-06T21:36:00.000-08:00

Our family loves to play games. Let me introduce you to our latest game craze....
Bryce got this game for Christmas from mom. He LOVES to play games. He especially loves games with patterns. I was searching for just the right one this Christmas, this is it!! We even got the Campbells hooked enough that they bought it too! Truly, fun for the whole family!

Object of the game... each player gets a series of 21 pieces of various different shapes (grouped no more than 5). You have to fit all your pieces on the board!

Bryce trying to fit on the last couple of pieces... harder than it sounds.

We Baaks love our games!

President's Day Fun!

2009-03-06T20:48:00.000-08:00

For President's Day I decided to take the kids hiking at the Santa Rosa Plateau, 15 minutes from our home. We recruited the Campbells to come along with us. I'm so lame I didn't get a picture of super trooper mom and super cutie Mathew coming along but they were all there! This is the trail we took.

I miss the beach but there are certainly fun perks living here as well.

The kids got bored of waiting for us slow poke moms in the back...

actually, this is our little slowpoke, he did NOT want any help; and actually, he was pretty quick for not quite 2, his little legs just aren't as long.
(thanks Cynthia and Mathew for keeping us company in the back)

Trailblazers Connor & Bradley pave the way...

Can you believe we're only 15 minutes from home! Amazing!

Expression on Bradley's face says it all.... a very fun day!

2009-02-13T19:38:00.000-08:00

John & Allison and kids got Disneyland trip from Santa Clause for Christmas this year. They came down at the perfect time to go, the 2nd week in January. Everyone is back to business, Disneyland is so enjoyable.

They stayed close to Disneyland and went for 3 days. On Sunday, they came out to visit us in Murrieta. We had Mary, Ann, Jayna, Brian Jr & Gma Mary Kay over. It was a nice visit!

We also celebrated grandma Mary Kay's 82nd birthday and Bryce's 9th birthday!

Happy Birthday Grandma Mary Kay!!

Grandma's great-grandkids & grandkid - Brian Jr.

I love my grandma Mary Kay. I have so many fond memories with grandma Mary Kay. She and Junior paid for our family to take a trip on the train from Utah to visit them in anaheim, CA when I was 8 years old. I still remember the train ride and choosing a Christmas tree that was a foot too tall (even though we all told Junior it was just too big!). Mostly, I remember the ride down beach blvd. and getting out to sit on the sand at Huntington Beach. We didn't get in the water but it was my first real visit with the beach. I remember just loving sitting there listening to the waves and thinking "I would LOVE to live here someday!" Little did I know that 11 years later it would become a reality.

I was lucky enough to get to spend 1 month alone with just grandma Mary Kay and Junior. When I was 12, dad came home and announced we were moving to CA. I was excited! Dad had to go start work a month early, they hadn't quite sold the house and his job was starting. Mom was worried him making the long drive to Las Vegas, where he was going to meet Junior and Mary Kay alone. I suggested I go with him to help keep him awake. I was so excited to be living there. I remember riding in the car with grandma and coming down the 215 into the valley and asking Mary Kay what all the brown stuff was, it's smog she explained. No matter to me, I still was excited. We had a fun time reading and exploring the wax museum, the beach again. It was fun having all the attention. Grandma really helped install in me the love of reading! I also got to help her with several home improvement projects. I also owe my brilliant smile to Junior and Mary Kay (I was thankful then but I sure am now!)

Thanks Grandma for everything. May not only your birthday, but every day be happy!

FHE reports

2009-02-03T22:10:00.000-08:00

How did I get so blessed with such an amazing family! I have 5 AMAZING children! A wonderful, loving husband who respects and honors his priesthood but most importantly has a strong testimony which he bears to our children!

I am so thankful for the Family Home Evening program. What an inspiration it is in this time when families have so many activities going on it is hard to even be altogether! I find comfort in the words of the prophet that if we have family home evenings regularly, our kids should stay close to the gospel. With 5 kids, I cling to that promise! I need all the help I can get!

I come from a tradition of FHE. We held it every Monday night when I grew up and I remember learning a lot. I'm so grateful for that tradition so that now, as an adult responsible for my own family, FHE is not something I think about doing, it comes naturally. I can't go without it! (thanks mom and dad!)

That's not to say that FHE is always wonderful, spiritual and happy family bonding time. Sometimes, I just feel lucky to be altogether in the same place. However, I DO know, no matter how much the kids moan and complain or argue or seem to be totally not paying attention, it is NEVER a waste of time. If I have learned anything in being a mom for 14 years or working with primary age kids for the last 12, is that you never know what is going to sink into a child's heart or when. Sometimes the lessons that seems like no one was paying attention to is the one that sunk in. I know that I just need to do my part and the spirit will do the rest.

Our past few FHE have really been fun and uplifting. I wanted to start sharing what we've been doing so the kids can remember for when they have a family later on.

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A few weeks ago we talked about having "AN ATTITIDE OF GRATITUDE." We started with the story of Jesus healing the 10 lepers and only 1 returning to give thanks.

We talked about how people can turn even a bad situation into being much more bearable if they think of the possitive things. We ended with a quote from our prophet, Thomas S. Monson which will be our new family motto.... "Think to Thank" Don't you LOVE that !! I'm going to have it displayed in our new home to remind us. How much happier we are when we realize all that we DO have instead of concentrating on things we wish we had. We also set forth a new challenge to think of 3 things to thank heavenly Father for before we pray.

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The next week we had a lesson on the bearing of a true testimony. We talked about how a testimony is bearing witness of your belief in Jesus Christ and Principles of the Gospel. We don't need to share lengthy personal experiences or travel logs. We testify what we know or believe in about the truthfulness of the gospel. We all took the opportunity to bear our testimonies to eachother. What a sweet experience to hear my children bear their sweet testimonies. Danny and I are always telling them they need to not take our word for it but the gospel is true; but to truly find out for themselves. I felt the spirit enter the room. I know that they are each really striving to find a testimony of their own.

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Last week, dad decided we needed to do something fun (which sometimes can be a challenge finding something we ALL think is fun and can agree upon). We decided to go to dinner and a movie. We went to dinner at this place called Richie's Diner. He is good friends with the founder of In-N-Out and named it after him. It's just an all american diner with steak, hamburgers shakes and good old apple pie - YUM!

Then we went to see the movie BOLT. This was the hard part; finding a movie we could ALL enjoy, even Tyson. I have to admit, Danny and I were secretly thinking it was going to be one of those "endure to the end for the sake of the kids" kind but we were all pleasantly surprised and ended up enjoying it! Tyson slept for the first part and enjoyed the end. It was entertaining to the point of laughing our loud. Even Kierstin couldn't complain since it was all about a girl and her dog (if you know Kierstin, you know how perfect that is!) Darling movie, we recommend it! Just an ejoyable night all around.

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Yesterday, we had a FHE on the importance of finding good friends. President Hinkley said every member needs to #1: Be nourished by the word #2 Have a Calling and #3 have a friend. Of course we need to feel as if we are friends amongst our family but as we are seperated from our family at school and work most of the day, it is important we surround ourselves with people who will encourage us to make good choices not whom we have to fight for our standards from! We gave the example of "would you eat the cookie dough that had a little mud mixed in?"

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I want to again bear my testimony of the importance of family home evening. The prophet has counselled us to hold it every family night with the promise if we do, our children will be blessed to gain testimonies of the gospel in which if they do stray from the gospel, they will return. What better reason do you need to hold family home evenings? I just know that's more than enough reason for me!

BRYCE TURNS 9 IN 2009!!

2009-02-01T22:16:00.000-08:00

Bryce Roy Baak

The Amazing Mathmatical Genius

Turns 9 in 2009!

Our family rang in the new millenium, the new century, 2000, with the 3rd proud addition to our family; Bryce Roy Baak! Already having a daughter and a son, we welcomed our 2nd son, 3rd child, very happily and with no hidden hopes for a girl or a boy. We were just excited to watch our family tree grow!

The middle names of our kids all have meaning. We chose Roy, because it is my dad's middle name, part of my dad's father's first name (LeROY), and my great-grandfather's middle name (Franklin Roy). We not only liked the name Bryce but it also holds family signifigance because my great-gradfather; Franklin LeRoy (whom he shares a name with) engineered all the roads through Bryce Canyon during the great depression.

It ends up being very fitting Bryce is named for them as he has my grandfather and great-grandfather's flare for math. He loves it! (unfortunately, it skipped me) He wants to be a mathmetician when he grows up. Truly, his great- great-grandfather, who was a prominant engineer, and his great-grandfather passed that on. His great grandpa, LeRoy Junior Davis, helped get the first rocket to the moon by creating a computer program that could figure out how thick they needed to build the walls of the rocket containing the fuel so they wouldn't explode on the way to the moon. He also invented a computer program that could figure out how thick they needed to build windshields in airplanes to withstand impact of birds that would oft times fly into and through the windshilds of planes, killing or injuring pilots. Before this time, they would shoot chickens out of rockets at windshields to test them, no joke! (he is a chicken's hero)! Just a little family connection for you Bryce!

Bryce is such a wonderful addition to our family. After crying away the first year of his life, he ended up being a very happy, easy going child. He sucked his middle two fingers so it looked like he was making the sign for "I love you" when he sucked his fingers. It was so cute!

I did worry about how I was going to break him of the habit when the time came since you can't just take your fingers away. I needn't have worried. When Bryce was about 4 we were sitting on the couch watching T.V. He looked at his fingers and noticed the callouses he had on his fingers. He asked me what they were and I told them they were from sucking his fingers. He asked me how to get rid of them. I told him he was going to have to stop sucking his fingers. I could see him thinking it over but didn't really push the issue. About a week later, Bryce comes up to me and says "look mom, my callouses are gone!" Sure enough they were and I realized that he had stopped sucking his fingers all on his own accord! I was so proud of you Bryce!

That is so true to your character. You really think about things you want to apply yourself to. When you decide to do it, you do it full force and follow through successfully! It also shows how self-motivated you are which is why they love to snatch you up for combo-classes at school. When I give you an assignment like "do your homework" or "do your chores." You are usually the first one on it and do a good job of what you are asked to do. That quality will take you far in life.

You are the spitting image of your dad, a mini-Danny, right down to the impish grin! You share so many of your dad's qualities, especially the love of games and his competitive nature! If you're in the middle of Danny and Bryce playing a game, watch out! It's a fight for first place all the way and loving every second!!

Bryce is the quiet button pusher full of mischief, of the fun-loving kind! But you are kind and have a tender heart. You have been so responsible watching out for Brian at school who just starting kidnergarten by having to pick him up from class after school and walking him to the carpool!

Mostly, I am so happy that you try so hard to CTR and that you really think about what you learn about the gospel and ask good questions. You will be blessed for that!

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For Bryce's birthday, he wanted to take some friends miniature golfing. So we took a few friends, ate pizza and played a few games at home first

Left: Ethan Campbell, Ronnie, Ryan, Hunter Patton, Corbin Cubute, Brian hiding and Bradley in rear.

then we shot 18 holes of mini golf.

We did this the day before his birthday as there was no school that day.

On your actual birthday, the next day, we followed it up with dinner at your favorite restaurant Soup Plantation and then cake....

and presents....

your own remote controlled helicopter and the book "39 Clues" by Rick Riordon, which we're enjoying right now.

Bryce, we sure love you! You are a priceless addition to our family! May this day and every day be happy!

Starting off the New Year with the Family!

2009-01-18T23:25:00.000-08:00

Danny's Uncle Jack & Aunt Carolyn Allen arranged a super fun family party on January 2nd to ring in 2009. We all got together at the Church Institute at Golden West College in Huntington Beach. We had such a great time with super yummy food and great entertainment!

There was fuseball

a pool table

and air hockey.

Jack & Carolyn also hired the balloon diva to come and thrill us with her terrific creations. She was seriously the best balloonist I've ever seen. she even made Danny a Star Trek Enterprise (failed to get a pic), so cool! If you need a balloonist call me! The kids LOVED it!

Santa even made an encore appearance!

But the best part was the company. We don't get together often enough!

Kierstin & Ann Marie (dad's get the shotguns ready!)

Danny's cousin Michelle and her husband Chuck are a great example to us. They have 4 amazing sons who have grown into wonderful men (2 have already gone on missions and are now married) and 2 wonderful young men!

Unfortunately, I wasn't as good with getting all the pics I wanted to. (my N.Y. resolution is to take more pics) but I did get this pic of those chatting in the pic.

We don't get to see you often enough. We wish you all a very wonderful 2009. thanks Jack & Carolyn for arrangeing the whole thing. We had so much fun!

Christmas 2008

2009-01-18T23:09:00.000-08:00

We had a very lovely Christmas this year. Most importantly, we have a nice home, food on the table and the spirit of the Lord. We have health and strength and safety and most importantly the gospel in our lives.

My family is growing so quickly before my eyes. I'm sobered by the fact that as of now, Kierstin only has 3 more Christmases home with us before she will be "visiting" for Christmas! Yikes! I'm trying to treasure all these precious moments and memories with my kids. They are so wonderful. They strive so hard to do what's right and are really making good life choices. They are truly thinking for themselves and developing their own testimonies of the gospel. There truly is no greater gift than that and I pray for it to be the same every year.

I have to note that we were so very blessed to be fortunate enough to enjoy some luxuries in our lives (I often have to remind my kids they are luxuries and not necessities). But I think it's interesting to document what they "got" since they often ask what I got or asked for when I was young.

Tyson received a basketball hoop just his size with several balls to go with it. We all have enjoyed making 2 points all day long.

Brian scored a scateboard from Santa (the sword is from Bryce)

Bryce got a remote control helicopter that really flies!

I know, this picture looks awful, but it's just an airsoft rifle that dad helped Santa choose. (mom got the expensive Volcom hat he's been wanting.

Kierstin got her very own digital camera. We'll see what she captures with it.

Danny and I bought ourselves a new video camera at Thanksgiving time for a gift to ourselves. Ours broke several years ago and we've realized we've missed out on a lot of precious time. In the meantime, I'm taking videos and fogetting to take still pics so I didn't get a pic of Mary and Ann who stayed with us christmas Eve and was here for Christmas morning. We are so glad they shared it with us. Uncle Daren, Aunt Nikole, Kelsey, Hayden & Hailey and my Aunt Jayna, her son Brian came to share Christmas dinner. Grandma Mary Kay was going to come too but had a sore back.

It was a lovely day. I love the holiday seasons! It's a good time to truly reflect upon the blessing of all the gifts that Heavenly Father has deemed fit to bestow upon my family. Danny and I do indeed, feel very wealthy!

Can A Mother Make A Difference

2009-01-09T12:45:00.000-08:00

I must admit, this blog is more of a call to arms and gather support amongst friends. I found myself, as a mother, yet again frustrated in my attempts to raise my moral children in an immoral world....

Last night, Kierstin and I were able to have a mother-daughter date. I was excited cuz she actually asked for it and we both LOVE Barnes and Noble. Of course, we headed straight for the "teen" section for books. I am always put off by some of the selections they put in the "teen" section considering teens are also 12-15 which is really young for some of the subject material they put in there (don't get me started on that). So we browse the books and I am inwardly shaking my head at some of the selections....

Then I turn around and there on a table, right next to the teen section and leading to the children's section are the "Valentine" books. Need I say what "selections" were on that table? They didn't really have any pictures on the covers but the Titles spoke volumes, and even worse were the ones that didn't that you might be inticed to pick up and be shocked to find the content.

They had a whole entire store to put this table and they put it there? They could have put it on the whole other side of the entry walkway on the adult section. Why did they put it there? Coincidence? Come on, part of sales is advertising. They think everything through. Like at Blockbuster where everything is NOT in exact Alphabetical Order. They disburse the big releases through the store and put the lesser knowns amongst them so they have a chance. I think every mother would like to kill the guy that, we will reluctantly concede, had the brilliant idea of putting candy in the checkout lanes.

No, they think these things through. Like how tempting it will be for these hormonal kids to pick them up and maybe even secretly buy them. How many of us leave our teens off to browse through Barnes and Noble?

I'm not saying I don't trust my daughter, I do. I am constantly thanking Heavenly Father for what a good girl she is and how she really stands for something and makes good moral decisions. But how much can you take when filth is constantly thrown your way?

So do we accept it, and say "oh well, just don't do it?" No, I think it is our obligation to be active and do something in whatever way we can. In fact, in a conference talk by the Prophet Ezra Taft Benson, he said it is our moral obligation to stand up for truth and righteousness. We must not sit complacently by. I think that is what's happening in this world. People are sitting complacently by and not taking any sort of action when they feel something is morally or ethically wrong.

You don't have to be outspoken or a crusader to do something. It is so easy to do something these days from the security of your own home. You can send a letter, write an e-mail or, as in my case, I made a phone call.

I didn't want to embarass Kierstin or make a scene. So this morning I called Barnes and Noble and asked to speak with the manager.. I politely gave my point of view. She suggested "well, teens are always in the sensuality section." I suggested that yes, but maybe some teens that are too embarassed to be seen in that section might find it so much easier to casually pick up one of those books when it's in their section anyways." She said she wasn't the head manager but would pass it on to him.

Will it make a difference? Probably not with just my call, but I am rather confident it would if several concerned mothers called in. That's how sales work. That's why they are constantly doing surveys; to see what appeals to the people. I'm going to go in on Monday, to see for myself if it did in this case. I'll keep you posted....

On another note, I wouldn't recommend going to see Bedtime Stories either. Not only was it not very well developed script, but I, and especially Danny did NOT appreciate the scene where he is standing on the beach with the very voluptious girl in a very tiny bikini. I was so conscience about how very long the scene seemed to go on with my 3 sons, especially my 11 year old hormonal son sitting right there watching wide eyed.

I always knew men were wired differently than women but I'm finding how much so all the time. Like Danny was so disturbed by another beach scene they had. This time the main girl had on enough clothes but apparently the extras sure didn't. Funny, I didn't notice so much but Danny sure did. Hmmm, do I think my boys notice too? I'm looking up an e-mail site for Disney.

Am I asking you to call in with me in these 2 instances, only if you feel so enticed. However, the next time something really bothers you as being morally or ethically wrong. Instead of being shocked, and shrugging it off; ask yourself instead; "Is there something I can do about this?" I believe it would make a difference.

"It's all in the Name"

2009-01-08T22:07:00.000-08:00

I made my mother-in-law's whole wheat pancakes from scratch this morning. The best thing about them is that I don't like them with syrup. I like them either with strawberry jam or fresh strawberries mashed with a tiny bit of syrup or even straight with a little butter. So good for you, n0 butter or oil or anything! I even freshly grind the wheat. My kids will eat them, but of course they're not as good as the "regular" pancakes. I used to make them all the time but had got out of the habit. However, as a new year resolution our FAMILY is now going to be eating better.

As I was reading the recipe this morning I had to chuckle. I put it in our ward's latest cookbook. I labeled them "Yummy Whole Wheat Pancakes." Apparently, the name of a recipe can be very influential. I was thumbing through the cookbook with Bryce a while back. He is my little baker's assistant. If I even get out the BOSCH he is over in a flash ready to help.

In any case I came across that page with the recipe and Bryce says "mom, you should make these whole wheat pancakes instead of the ones you usually make."

I laughed so hard tears came out of my eyes. Of course he looks at me with a bewildered look on his face. I had to explain; "Bryce, these ARE the pancakes I usually make!"

Bryce: "But these say YUMMY!"

It's all a matter of opinion I guess.

YUMMY Whole Wheat pancakes

Divide 4 eggs with the yolk in a large mixing bowl and the whites in a medium bowl.

To the yolks add:

2 C buttermilk

1 1/2 C whole wheat flour

2 tsp. baking powder

1 tsp. baking soda

1/2 tsp. salt

2 T honey

Whip the whites until stiff peaks form. Fold into the yolk mixture. Bake on medium heat until cooked well through. I add blueberries or chocolate chips.

Christmas Eve

2009-01-04T23:19:00.000-08:00

We had a lovely Christmas Eve. My sisters, Ann and Mary came to sleep over Christmas Eve so they could be with us in the morning. We had our family favorite dinner; green chicken enchilada casserole. It's easy and a festive green color. We had squash and corn and rice to go with it with sparkling cider of course. Very yummy! Here's the recipe. So easy, so delicious, the best kind AND most importantly, everyone eats it!

Green chicken enchilada casserole:

In a 9x9 baking dish layer:

cooked chicken
corn tortillas
some green enchilada sauce to cover
grated cheese (mozerella or cheddar)
corn tortillas
green enchilada sauce to cover
chicken
corn tortillas
rest of enchilada sauce
top with cheese and olives

so yummy, so easy! My fav kind of recipe, quick and easy for christmas eve when I can concentrate on the important part of Christmas Eve...

We took pics from the gospel art picture kit and had each child read a part of the nativity story ending with the signs in America. There was a very lovely spirit there! I'm so grateful my kids really have a desire to learn about the savior and his life. I pray that desire may continue! That truly is the best Christmas gift I can have is having them all there and sharing their lovely spirits!

Of course we end by talking about the reason we exchange gifts is to respresent the great gift the savior gave to us. The kids get to each open some special Christmas p.j.s to wait for santa in. this year, grandma Nancy did the honors decking everyone out in special robes too (Tyson declined to be photoed for this event. In fact, he was having a problem wanting to wear any p.j.s at all although he did enjoy opening them!) Then off to bed, nice and snug to wait for Santa to come!

Mommy's little elf helper!

2009-01-04T23:14:00.000-08:00

This was the first time in 14 years I didn't not have my traditional Christmas Cookie exchange. I guess I haven't been in a real party mood since we've moved. However, the kids wondered when we were going to make the "Christmas Cookies" the chocolate ones with peppermint frosting and sprinkled mints on top, yum! We made plates for our neighbors and new friends.

I'm so blessed with 4 little helpers. This time, I was blessed with the help of the littlest one. I guess if you received any of our cookies, you're glad to see this pic after you've eaten. I think we had more ingredients out of the bowl than in at one point.

but the real point is TYSON had fun!

Everyone needs a taste tester!

Another singer in the house... Bryce's Christmas Concert!

2009-01-04T23:08:00.001-08:00

Can you see the darling little boy in the santa hat on the end of the 2nd row from the front? No, well, you'll have to take my word for it that he's just the most darling, musically inclined 8 year old in a santa hat in the whole bunch of 3rd graders!

I would have loved for you to see him better, but my camera, which is has awesome clarity, and so forth, does not have a great zoom. I did get a video pic but I still have to figure out how to download them.

Take my word for it, it was a very festive atmosphere! With a great song about a spanish reindeer I wish I could remember the words to, darling! Good job Bryce!

A Visit With Santa

2009-01-04T22:40:00.000-08:00

We're lucky that Santa usually makes a stop at our church Christmas party. So we get to have a visit with him without waiting in that awful line at the mall that usually destroys the moment by the long wait! It turns out he actually travels to the ward in Murrieta as well.

Bradley spared Santa's lap and visited with him instead. He said he wanted a new airsoft rifle this year....

Kierstin opted out of even personally visiting with Santa this year. I guess she's banking on the letter she wrote him (I hope he got it!)

Bryce told Santa he wanted a remote control helicopter or airplane....

Brian wanted a skateboard.....

Tyson, well, he's just getting the idea. This was as close to Santa as he was willing to get this year. I'm sure he'll make up for it next year with a list a mile long!!

Christmas tree to the max!!

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When I was a little girl, we had an artificial tree to save money and because my mom, dad and sister are all allergic to a real tree. I was always so jealous when my friends would go with their families to choose a real tree. I loved the smell of it the look, everything. I guess we always want what everyone else wants when we're little.

Of course I vowed to always get a real tree when I had my own family someday! From the moment I got out on my own, we have always got a real tree. I still love the whole thrill of going out to find "the one." I love the feel in the air and the smell of the lots.

As the kids have got involved, they of course, have always wanted the biggest tree we could fit. In the past, it has always been a 6-7 footer as we have had 8 foot ceilings and with the stand and the star, it was always a tight fit.

Well, this year, our new home has 10 foot ceilings so we could actually get a 9 foot tree! although ,when we got to the lot, our kids were convinced we could fit a 16 foot tree in "that spot by the stairs." Danny and I laughed. I thought I was always bad at gaging measurement. When someone says, "oh, it's about a foot", I am clueless to how big or small that may be. However, I was fairly confident we did not have room for a 16 foot tree. Although, trying to talk them out of it was hysterical. We finally said "look, we'll take it home and you'll see, this one barely fits."
So we settled for a 9 footer this year. Wow, I was beginning to worry that I was gathering too many ornaments to fit on a tree anymore. that may have been true for our 7 footer but the 9 footer, it all fit nicely (although I did have to buy 3 extra strands of lights!)

In the end, Kierstin and Bradley had a nice little "oops," laugh at themselves when they realized just how tall 16 feel would have been and how inconvenient it would have been to crawl up the railing of the stairs to go around it! Tyson just kept looking at it like he was amazed we actually brought a tree in the house! It all turned out lovely in the end!

Tyson, loved it all! He even brought refreshments!

I think Kierstin thinks she's getting too old for our traditions!! (sad thing is she only has 3 more left!)

Voila, proof that our 9 foot tree was the perfect fit!!

Brad's Christmas Concert

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Part of the perks of middle school is that you get to choose an elective. Bradley was going to choose Band but the guidance counsellor talked him into taking choir and boy is he glad he is. He enjoyed it so much that he tried out for the honors all boy ensemble and made it. There aren't many 6th graders in it, just a couple. He gets to have his own tux and got to go to Disneyland the Friday before school got out to perform and then enjoy the rest of the day.

Also, that week before, they had the Christmas concert. Man, does my boy look good in a tux or what?

It was fun to get to hear him sing and dress up.

Bradley can not only sing but comes fully loaded with the full set of dimples too! (Can't we go back to arranging marriages and skip the whole dating scene? He's not only cute but knows all the right things to say to a girl. We're in trouble!)

Boys working hard in school!

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Danny and I always tell our kids that it's their "job" right now to do their very best in school. If they do their best and work hard in school it will help give them more choices in how they can be happy in supporting future families later on.

A's are nice, but the most important thing is that they do their best and I always tell them I will know when it has been their best.

Bryce and Brian showed what they were capable of this past quarter in school. Bryce won 2 awards these past 3 months, one in his first class with Ms. Castilla for Citizen of the month. This is for a child that shows exceptional character. He got to eat lunch (McDonalds) with the principal.

The 2nd award was from his current teacher, Mr. Ennis, for outstanding achievement in reading. (Bryce was transferred from his first class cuz they had over 20 kids in it). This is really an achievement for Bryce as he excels in math (he wants to be a mathmatician someday). He usually has a harder time in reading. Not that he doesn't get it, just he's not interested in it and so he tends to rush through his reading and writing, not caring as much. So I was expecting the award to be in math and tickled to find it was in reading!! Way to go Bryce!

Brian also received an award that day. His award assembly was 2 1/2 hours after Bryce's. I was all set to go and had a bad parent moment and completely lost track of time. When I looked at the clock it was 1:45 and the assembly was at 1:30!! I grabbed Tyson out of his nap and rushed to the school, but of course I was too late! I felt AWFULL!! I can't express enough how awful I felt.

Brian's award was for outstanding citizenship. Having caring, understanding, considerate, courteous qualities which he definately has as he was quick to forgive mom for being such a flake! I was so grateful to his understanding nature! I'm also so proud of how well he is doing at school too especially considering this is his first year AND a new school AND he had to get switched out of his first class 1 1/2 months through cuz there was more than 20 kids. He's been a real trooper. How can you not love his smile!!

CONGRATULATIONS TO OUR HARD WORKING, SCHOLARLY BOYS!!!

A real THANKFUL Thanksgiving 2008.

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I finally posted the fanstical "trip" part of our Thanksgiving but I didn't really post the important part, the THANKFUL part of it.

As I've said before, I am blogging mostly to keep a family history of sorts for my kids to look back on. So this blog is mostly for my children. I want them to realize how much we truly have to be thankful for in a year where they think they've lost most all they held dear.

We sure have had a year full of surprises this year with most of it being that this time last year we had absolutely NO intentions of moving away from Huntington Beach. If you were to have told us that we would be somewhere else by this time next year we would have told you you were sorely mistaken. We LOVED our home, family and friends that surrounded us there. In fact, I must admit, I had pretty much told everyone that I loved living there and would only move if an angel came down and told me to.

That is pretty close to what happened. It really was a miracle that we were able to sell our house within 2 months of deciding to do so and within 3 weeks of putting it on the market narrowly missing the real financial crash of the summer!! All of this was done because of motivation by the Prophet's continual counsel to get out of debt, get out of debt, and prepare for your future. It weighed constantly on our mind. We our grateful the Lord helped us in doing so.

Although we LOVE our dear friends and family in H.B. and miss them sorely, we have been blessed to have a more certain mortal future for our family which is important too.

I am thankful for all the lessons we are learning from this move. That a house is only a shell, the family within is what makes a home. When I am within the walls of our new house going about life with my kids, I feel at home and at peace and love, the same as in our old home. My heart aches for the friends and things comfortable and familiar that we've left behind but not for the nicer material aspects of our old home. I am so grateful that we are all in one place, together.

I am so thankful that I am able to stay home and be a homemaker. I must admit, I used to look for other words to describe my occupation in the beginning. I now proudly write HOMEMAKER on my job description. What an honor it is to be able to create a safe haven for those whom I love and cherish.

I am every day grateful for the health and strength of me and my family. That is HUGE! There are so many that are not. I think of that almost every day of my life and as long as I am able I will serve the Lord with what he gives of me. I love that song "Because I have been Given Much."

I am so thankful for a husband who loves me and supports me but most importantly that he holds and honors his Priesthood. He has a testimony and delights in sharing it which is such a tremendous example to 4 budding missionary boys and a potential missionary daughter. He works hard and makes sure we have fun.

I am so thankful for kids that are choosing to learn more about the gospel. They strive hard to do what's right and are a good example to their friends. I love each one of them. I'm so blessed to have been entrusted with 5 strong spirits who teach me every day!

I am so thankful for parents who raised me in the gospel but more importantly were a good example to me. My dad is the epitomy of service and kindness. He truly taught me how the church and its programs are meant to work. My mother taught me to always do my duty to God and that it is to God we answer, not man. THANKS!

I am thankful for friends who uplift and support me. I am such a people person. I love to surround myself with others who will help strengthen and uplift me by example and in whom I can share and know that I'm not alone in my struggles. Which brings me to my next point...

the scriptures. I LOVE that those ancient prophets followed the Lord's instructions and were so willing to give us a piece of thier lives. Heavenly Father could have just given us a book of instructions/commandments and said "follow these or else." But instead, he gives us beautiful example of fellow brothers and sisters who started off as ordinary but had faith in the Lord and became extraordinary. They are so relateable and make me feel like I can do this too. (Gotto luv Mohonrimoriancumr & Alma the Younger)

I'm thankful for prayer, where would I be without a lifeline to my Father in Heaven? He's bailed me out of so many bad circumstances.

Boy am I SO grateful to live in these fulness of the times! What a privilege it is to not only live in a time when I have all the gospel keys but the peace and comfort I get that even though things are going to get hard there will ALWAYS be the gospel on the earth and those who believe - HUGE!

And to live in this country and enjoy so many freedoms and the company of so many people who even though they may not go to an lds church, still have values and believe in God.

It all sums up to being thankful for the gospel of Jesus Christ. How do people live without it especially when you hit those tough times. I guess people are so busy and caught up in those busy times of life they can push aside those thoughts and not think of it. However, when it gets down to the end, it's funny to see how most people really are frantically trying to stave off death or finally come to terms and search out God. I've seen it first hand in my grandfather. I'm grateful to have a peace of mind NOW. I bear my testimony, that we have so very much to be grateful for and it did not come by chance. Rather there is a Father in Heaven who loves us and looks after us and has bestowed these many kindesses upon us for which I am truly grateful.

But I want to let my kids know that this move was a BLESSING for our family. Dad and I had been listening to the Prophet speak over and over about getting out of debt and becoming prepared for the future. We were not at that point. The future was uncertain and that was so weighing and scary and heavy. We felt we needed to do something. After much consideration, prayer and fasting we made that decision

MUCH TO BE THANKFUL FOR IN 2008 PART 2!

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So after funning it up in Phoenix, we headed out for Pie Town, New Mexico Tuesday morning. The drive from Phoenix to New Mexico is BEAUTIFUL!! There were the "Charlie Brown" cactuses everwhere. (that's what we call them cuz they look like the cactus that Snoopy's brother Spike is always standing next too.) And it wasn't just brown, dead, flat desert like the first part of the drive. The hills were covered with different type flora and fauna we hadn't seen and volcanic rock was everywhere. We went via Globe, AZ which meant we went through all the Indian Territories. At every little town you'd see a sign that said it was established in 1880 or 1890s. It was obvious all of these towns were centered around mining. You could see old abandoned mind shafts dotting the hills with a rundown shack every now and then. You wondered what would possess someone to choose that random spot, in the middle of nowhere, to put down roots and stop digging. Did they have kids? How many actually found something? What a hard life that must have been! I would HATE being a miner.

Driving through Globe was interesting. The town was established at the turn of the century and it was obvious it was/still is a mining town. Before you drive into town you see half of the mountainside in various states of deconstruction as they are looking for what?.. I looked it up and they mind silver. Then you drive into town and a big huge mining plant is perched up atop the town itself. You can see how hard mining really is. The town looked just ragged and beaten down. Various states of disrepare but people were still hustling and bustling about. Life in the same country, but so different from ours.

Then we drove through Hell's Canyon which was just gorgeous! At first we thought it was part of the Grand Canyon but I guess not. It looked almost like that with the red & even green rock cut away by a river way down below! It was so fascinating to see the power of water and mother nature. Plus it was all Indian Country. I thought of my mom serving as a missionary somewhere around there. I'm sorry that I did not take more pictures to chronicle it all but I was busy keeping Tyson entertained and being entertained myself by the countryside.

the last part of the drive can only be described as "The Plains." I, (and my kids) come from Pioneer stock. We had ancestors on my mom & dad's sides that crossed the plains with the Mormon Pioneers in the 1840s. When I was a kid I just imagined it as this flat piece of land, not big deal. It is really easy to see why they are called "the Plains." There are no mountains really around just a random hill here and there (which some of them I really wonder what is underneath there. I truthfully would not be surprised if someone found some sort of ancient structures underneath some of those odd random hills. Really, they just poke up, all alone, out of nowhere! I think of the ancient, Book of Mormon civilizations) It kind of slopes down into the west. They are blanketed in this fluffy looking yellow prarie grass. It's very soft on the eye.

However, on closer inspection, when you look off of the nice, paved road, you see how very rocky and rough those plains are. That yes, there are no mountains but some rather long inclining UPWARD hills that are rocky and filled with brush! How did they get through it all! How very uncomfortable those wagon rides must have been, especially on those with child or just had children. My heart really swelled with gratitude to my forebears who suffered much and I am reaping the rewards!! I hope you really ponder that, my kids who come from the same stock! Fortunately, as I was reflecting upon this, I did take a pic of what some of it looked like. I hope your eyes are drawn toward it someday, Brian, and you really think on it too~

After about a 6 hour drive, we reach Aunt Darlene & Uncle Doug's ranch. It is beautiful!! I am so sorry to report that I did not take nearly as many pics of it as I intended. We just got a new video camera and I was so intent on taking videos I forgot to get out my camera enough. So I apologize in advance, that I did not get nearly enough pics of the ranch or especially of all our fam together and I missed Daren & Nikole's fam completely & Jennifer.

Oh well, we'll just concentrate on what I did get.

Here are Aunt Darlene & Uncle Doug, our gracious hosts who planned for us the PERFECT Thanksgiving, truly. We even had snow on Thansgiving day just like Uncle Doug promised. I have to admit, I was rather skeptical, especially when it started raining that morning which later turned into the promised snow. I'm embarrased to admit, my kids haven't really ever seen a real snowfall before. Living in Utah, till I was 12, I laughed at those CA kids, and now I've made some. But oh how we enjoyed the snow! I'm sorry to report I didn't get a pic but I got lots of videos. I"ll have to see if I can put that on to view.

In attendance were grandma Nancy & Grandpa Del, Jennifer - Aunt Darlene's daughter (Danny's niece) it was so good to see her! Daren & Nikole & family, Uncle Doug Lee Nick from Salt Lake City came and Aunt Debbie & Uncle Desi & family actually took the train all the way from Chicago!! It was so fun to see them. We hadn't in a couple of years. Debbie spoiled us all with her fab cooking!

Doug & Darlene were nice enough to let us bring the dirt bikes. Bradley, Nick & Uncle Doug were glued to those bikes riding around, and around, and around those 160 acres, even in the snow. Thanks Uncle Doug from Brian & Bryce for giving us rides!! Nick, Uncle Doug & Bradley

All my boys love dirtbikes. Bradley wakes up in the morning, puts his helmet & gear on and ONLY comes off to eat or when nature calls.

Bryce actually learned to ride the 90 this time. Dad & are are so proud of you! You were so proud of yourself. Brian will hitch a ride with anyone that is willing.
Doug & Brian &Dad with Tyson & Bryce standing

This was Tyson's first time really being on a dirtbike. I was sure he'd like it and boy was I right!! In fact, he liked it too much! Can you like something too much? The answer is YES! To the point of driving mom and dad crazy! As you can see, Tyson's face with dad on the bike was like, why are we stopping? This is Tyson when he had to get off...

Yes, Tyson pitches the full on, throw yourself on the floor, not caring if he hurts himself fits . This is what he was like when he had to get off the bike. For a whole 1/2 hour straight!! Grandpa Del looked at him and says "isn't there anything we can do?" Unfortunately, I am not a novice at fit pitching. Kierstin & Brian were experts at it. However, they never pitched a fit without regard to if they got hurt! Unfortunately, there really isn't anything you can do at 18 months old. They just aren't old enough to understand consequences. So he pretty much cried it out and then, when he's calm, mommy and daddy tell him that it was inappropriate and he sits in thinking time.

Needless to say, we were not looking forward to putting him on the bike the next day. It was almost worse to let him have a ride. Cuz although he would constantly nag us by saying 'ada' (motorcycle), at least he wouldn't pitch an all out fit. That and the fact it was FREEZING outside thanksgiving day, via the snow and he did not want to wear his jacket. But finally, dad knowing how fun it is to ride and not wanting to deny him, convinced him if he'd put his jacket, hat & stuff on he could ride the "ada". He rode until his cheeks were purple, again, pitched a fit and this was the end result...

Danny and I are not going to have a restful life!

We brought our trailer to stay at Doug & Darlene's. They had a houseful with Jennifer & Gpa Del & Nancy. They had a mobile home on the lot they lived in until the log cabin was done. Debbie & Daren families stayed there. We were very comfy in our trailer. Doug & Darlene have made a little trailer hitch facility where people can bring there horses and stay. So nice! They even have a small facility with a toilet, laundry hookups and a shower. I wish I would have got a pic of it. At first the boys were nervous to go potty in there since they thought they'd be seen but then they realized you can see out but no one can see in. I realized what a stroke of genius that was when I was prviliged to take a shower in there one early morning. I was able to look out into the beautiful sunrise while I was taking a shower! You almost feel a sense of gitty naughtiness!

I failed to mention their cabin. Which again, shame on me, I didn't get pics of. It's GORGEOUS! It's everything a log cabin should be with wood floors, a woodburning stove that keeps the whole house toasty and warm, a beautiful kitchen with soapstone countertops that weigh 4,000 lbs. Doug said after they put them in, they went out and came home to find the island had literally sunk into the crawlspace under the cabin. They called out the guys who jacked it up and had to reinforce it underneath! The whole ranch is meticulously kept just like their Nuevo ranch. Everything Doug & Darlene do is just tops. It was just gorgeous!

Darlne even got the horse out for the kids to ride. They LOVED it:

Tyson w/Darlene Brian w/Darlene

Bryce w/Darlene Brad trying it himself

Sadie, Deb's daughter & Austen with the forever grin!!

(she's really growing into a lovely girl!)

Darlne actually gave Bradley & Kierstin actual instruction with Kierstin getting a go at it herself. Unfortunately, I didn't get her pic. But Darlene said she was a natural!!

Kierstin, Tiki, Brad, Brian & Austin

Tyson, Brian & Austin

I'm so sad I didn't take more pics. I thought I had gotten so good. Oh well, I was having too much fun. Here are a few I managed to get:

Grandpa Del enjoying the view

One of the ways we wiled away the hours..

Uncle Desi, Gma Nancy & Aunt Darlene

A group shot (not all of us) in front of the cabin.

We planned on leaving Friday but satyed an extra day until Saturday cuz we were having so much fun. We were going to stop at John's on the way to break up the drive again but when we got to Phoenix it was 6:30 and tyson had fallen asleep. Danny wasn't tired so we decided to push on through to home. That way Tyson could sleep through it all, which he did and we were grateful for. We drove comfy in our nice van. Just a wonderful trip! Thanks to all of you who made it so. Thanks to Uncle Doug & Aunt Darlene and their hospitality!! We won't forget our wonderful 2008 Thanksgiving!